So I had a no-show at my wedding...

Linzee636 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 02:40 PM

So I had a no-show at my wedding...

She was the GF of one of our guy friends...

Apparently, the story goes, she flipped out because the guy went out with the groom and all the groomsmen the night before the wedding. When he got back to their apartment (they live together), she locked him out and he slept on a friend's couch that night.

When we had the receiving line at the wedding, we saw our friend and noticed the GF was M. I. A. She's known to be a psycho and pull wild stunts. She's threatened to move out on multiple occassions before and this was yet another nail in their relationship coffin.

Bottom line: she was a no-show at our wedding.

We leave for our honeymoon and it's over between the two of them, she's moving out, etc.... well now we're back and - SURPRISE - they're back together.

How does one proceed in this situation? Not only has she not apologized for being a wacko and not showing up to our wedding, she took the mature route and deleted us from facebook

elp6421 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 02:41 PM

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What?! Deleted you from facebook -- this lady sounds like a really wackadoo!

I really do not think I could be friends or even spend time with her after that.

MrsSx2 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 02:43 PM

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Wow, she sounds like a total @sshole. Seriously, deleted you from her FB? Hello...6 year old! I would stay away from her...and any activities that would involve hanging out with them as a couple!

halfbaked Posted: Oct 12, 2010 02:44 PM

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I wouldn't hold my breath for an apology. We had several no-shows. Less than half apologized or had a valid excuse.

grkbarbie Posted: Oct 12, 2010 02:45 PM

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did u cry when u found out they broke up? prob not, right? lolll

theres nothing u can do about it. let it go. shes nuts, everyone is aware. consider her your gm's problem, not urs

Becca2010 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 02:47 PM

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She is a total tool.

Consider it a blessing that she deleted you from fb, you don't need to be involved with people like that. You should go the extra step and block her!

AngnShaun Posted: Oct 12, 2010 02:47 PM

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i dont understand why she deleted you...

jhines4684 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 02:49 PM

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Posted by AngnShaun

i dont understand why she deleted you...

Heh, I know why - because she probably knows what she did was wrong and doesn't know how to own up.

I wouldn't worry about it - it is your friends problem, just be there for moral support and be the friend that respects his decisions even though you entirely don't agree.

Linzee636 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 03:00 PM

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Posted by jhines4684

Posted by AngnShaun

i dont understand why she deleted you...

Heh, I know why - because she probably knows what she did was wrong and doesn't know how to own up.

Seriously!! I was kind of like ummmm, what did I do here?

But it's definitely all for the best. We don't want anything to do with her, but ultimately I feel bad for our guy friend who won't give rid of this crazy girl. He's the one who's going to suffer since no one wants to hang out with him when he's with her...

saralee1978 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 03:01 PM

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Consider yourself lucky you got deleted....sounds like a psycho loser you don't want to be friends with anyway.

jhines4684 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 03:05 PM

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Posted by Linzee636

Posted by jhines4684

Posted by AngnShaun

i dont understand why she deleted you...

Heh, I know why - because she probably knows what she did was wrong and doesn't know how to own up.

Seriously!! I was kind of like ummmm, what did I do here?

But it's definitely all for the best. We don't want anything to do with her, but ultimately I feel bad for our guy friend who won't give rid of this crazy girl. He's the one who's going to suffer since no one wants to hang out with him when he's with her...

It happened to me too, a while ago, and the funny thing was I thought my friend was the psycho and the girl just deleted all of us - no explanation, nothing, assuming we'd side with him.

People are strange.

Find him someone to take him away....

Linzee636 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 03:08 PM

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HAHA we are plotting to find hot girls for him to get with so he can get unhooked from the crazy lady!

SoontobeGallagher Posted: Oct 12, 2010 04:44 PM

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She's an @sshole. I wouldn't even think about it.

latinaj Posted: Oct 12, 2010 04:55 PM

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Posted by Becca2010

She is a total tool.

Consider it a blessing that she deleted you from fb, you don't need to be involved with people like that. You should go the extra step and block her!

i like the way becca thinks!

GR2010 Posted: Oct 12, 2010 05:27 PM

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She's a wacko and there is nothing you can do except choose to not associate with her. We had 5 no-shows at our wedding and I'm just leaving it alone.

allornil Posted: Oct 12, 2010 05:29 PM

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you lost money on her but hell...you gained some sanity. deleting you was her gift to you! lol

flibbertigibbet Posted: Oct 12, 2010 05:48 PM

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seconding the phrase 'wackadoo' because it's awesome... and appropriate here.

you were better off not having her there ... she sounds nutso. you lost money which blows but... whatever. i'd call that guy and be like 'dude we love you but your gf is a f-ing psycho and she bailed on our wedding after we paid for her.'

.... did he gift you appropriately?

if you address him and he doesn't try to remedy the situation or at least apologize... i'd peace out on that dude as well.