So I have a QOTD

Mici n KC Posted: Mar 04, 2008 01:57 PM

So I have a QOTD

I haven't watched, but saw the previews for that new reality show about telling the truth (Is it To Tell the Truth? ) and one of the questions asked on the next episode is 'Do you have any secrets that would end your marriage?' or something to that effect. So my question is...

Do you have a secret that would end your relationship or really damage it? Now I am not asking anyone if they cheated on FH and are hiding it. It can be something you did in your past before FH and if he found out it would be devastating to your relationship.

Do you know someone that has a secret that would end their relationship?

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Mar 04, 2008 01:57 PM

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I'm a man

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Mar 04, 2008 01:58 PM

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ok- TOTALLY kidding, but no one was answering so i had to put something

I dont think there is anything before or during our relationship that would end it though - im pretty boring

Espo22 Posted: Mar 04, 2008 01:59 PM

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i was very open with him, maybe too open ...but for me i grew up in the same neighborhood as FH and once we got together you know how people are so i didnt want any surprises.

As far as i can think, nope...but then its weird bc its small things that will bother them that you would never realize it would so you never know i guess

lovebear7800 Posted: Mar 04, 2008 01:59 PM

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nope.

Mici n KC Posted: Mar 04, 2008 01:59 PM

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

ok- TOTALLY kidding, but no one was answering so i had to put something

I dont think there is anything before or during our relationship that would end it though - im pretty boring

Maybe I should say it's open to anyone you know too.

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:00 PM

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Nope. Alfonse knows ALL my secrets. And there are some doozies!

loislane Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:00 PM

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i have a strange obsession with farm animals

Kimbalina Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:00 PM

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So far so good!

Mici n KC Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:00 PM

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Posted by Espo22

i was very open with him, maybe too open ...but for me i grew up in the same neighborhood as FH and once we got together you know how people are so i didnt want any surprises.

As far as i can think, nope...but then its weird bc its small things that will bother them that you would never realize it would so you never know i guess

That is so true about the small things. I think we all have those little things about our FH's past that bother us.

MrsK2008 Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:01 PM

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No way. FH knows just about every dirty secret, as well as humiliating facts of my life.

Mici n KC Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:01 PM

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Nope. Alfonse knows ALL my secrets. And there are some doozies!

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:02 PM

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Posted by Kimbalina

So far so good!

kim- dont you think he would freak out if he knew what happened that on time in band camp??

teenigrrl Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:02 PM

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i'm very open and honest with him, i don't keep anything from him, so i'd have to say no, and i have quite a few things that would make other people run!

dannisayz Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:03 PM

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FH knows about my messed up past and he still loves me. It took him a while to be able to put it into perspective, but he eventually realized that it was all in the past. No secrets.

MayWeddingGrl Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:03 PM

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FH knows it all. I'm pretty open about sharing all the gritty details with him on my life.

MrsHtobe Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:06 PM

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Nope, no secrets here. FH knows everything from my past.

LoveRocks Posted: Mar 04, 2008 02:07 PM

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DH and I were best friends and partners in crime before we even began dating, so he knows ALL of it. We both have 'questionable' pasts and neither of us are really phased by much at this point.