So, I just talked to FSIL (sorta long vent)...

She said that the place where we ordered the dresses in California just called her and told her that they didn't order her dress because she requested a 'double-sided satin shawl' and that my BM dresses dont come with shawls. They told if she wants they can order a shawl that was satin on one side and polyester on the other (umm... no!)

She told them that they were not correct because all of my BMs in NY ordered the doublt sided shawl AND the sample in the store had that same shawl attached.

They were supposed to call me two weeks ago to ask me and they never did. So, I called them and they are utterly confused and said they will call me back... so now I am just waiting.

Ugh, I don't want to deal with this.

I'm sorry to hear that. Things will work out in the end. It might take a couple of phone calls but it will work out. Can you order your fsil's dress in ny? since you know what size she will be?

UGH...they didnt order any of my BM dresses but they never told called the others about their dresses....