i feel sad on this one but there's nothing i can do. she's preggo and is due the week before my wedding so it's too much of a risk/chance so she dropped out.
i'm still going to include her on my program and everything and with the planning but man this *****.
i am down to 3!
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im free
ETA i figured it was only fair to offer since i offered to be Kris's flower girl
in reality though, atleast this is a good reason and if possible, she will still be there with you
FutureMrsSoltan
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awww im sorry alyssa !!
Becca2010
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Awww that stinks, but it's for the best...
I volunteer to be a BM!!
FutureMrsK10110
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I know how you feel. I've lost 2 but I've since gotten one back.
20mrsc10
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im so sorry!!! i think that's one of the hardest things about planning so far in advance.. my cousin was supposed to be a part, but she got preggo and wont be able to come now
Yankees2323
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sorry alyssa!!! if you need an extra let m,e know lol...
Alyssa79
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you girls are awesome
kris_gets_hitched
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Aww, that stinks...completely understandable circumstance though. A lot of times when girls lose BMs, they also lose their friend, you know?
MikesBride2B
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Like Kris said, at least it was for a happy thing and not a 'fck you, lady!!' thing.
Am I her size? I'll step in for her
es2189
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i'm sorry!!! at least you can have a whole bunch of new bridesmaids, though!!
AngnShaun
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Sorry Alyssa!!!! That stinks, at least it was on good terms!!!
MarjorieFrank
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I'm sorry... that su cks... I have 3 BMs too, we can commiserate together lol
NYYankeeGirl72
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I know honey this was weighing heavy on your mind, but at least she told you now. It totally s*ucks. And I am so sorry that you are feeling sad........
but think of it this way....it just happens to be that she thought about the situation at hand and realized that it might be best to drop out, so as to not cause any stress to herself and to you. You including her still in the planning, will demonstrate to her that you really care. On that day, she will still be there for you and celebrating with you. That I think is the most important thing to remember.
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I'm sorry you lost 2 BM's I know how you feel b/c im on the verge of losing one
Kimbiz1
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Alyssa,
If your BM dresses are anything like your outfit last night, I'll stand in for her!!!!!
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JoanneAndJustin
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Awwww........... I'm so sorry, chica!
I'd be happy to fill in!
CarolAnn721
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I am available on 6/10 and have about 18 bm dresses from weddings past. LOL
JC297
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Alyssa it was the best thing for her to do. She can still be apart of your day if shes feeling up to it. I'm sure you can find something special for her to do.
