is still mad at me for missing her baby shower. I posted this a few days ago, long story short FH fell and I ended up being in the hospital with him. I felt horrible not being there and told her that. I called her on the way there telling her the situation. I then texted her when I got out telling her I couldn't make it and the shower only had a half hour left by the time we got out. She never answered back, the next day texts me asking how he's feeling so I tell her then ask her how eveything went and if she is home can I call her. No response. Then later on that night she sends me some odd chain letter text, which she never does, about what a real man is I called her 2x right after the text ,no answer and you can't leave a messege on her VM. I have FH telling me to call her. When she won't pick up for whatever reason what am I supposed to do. And I have her gift at my house.:
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I would go to her house!!
MikesBride2B
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If she is really that pissed off I think that you should stand up for yourself because I really think she's being unreasonable. If I recall from your last post I think the only issue I had was that you texted her instead of calling...but its not so serious that she needs to be THIS angry about it.
I know its not always the best answer (and I might get a beat down for saying it) but maybe being pregnant is making her a lil crazy? You definitely need to talk to her though...if she won't answer your calls, go to her house with the gift and try to talk it out.
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If she is really that pissed off I think that you should stand up for yourself because I really think she's being unreasonable. If I recall from your last post I think the only issue I had was that you texted her instead of calling...but its not so serious that she needs to be THIS angry about it.
I know its not always the best answer (and I might get a beat down for saying it) but maybe being pregnant is making her a lil crazy? You definitely need to talk to her though...if she won't answer your calls, go to her house with the gift and try to talk it out.
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If she is really that pissed off I think that you should stand up for yourself because I really think she's being unreasonable. If I recall from your last post I think the only issue I had was that you texted her instead of calling...but its not so serious that she needs to be THIS angry about it.
I know its not always the best answer (and I might get a beat down for saying it) but maybe being pregnant is making her a lil crazy? You definitely need to talk to her though...if she won't answer your calls, go to her house with the gift and try to talk it out.
actually i think that is a better explaination... her hormones might be making her more upset that she normally would be..
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If she is really that pissed off I think that you should stand up for yourself because I really think she's being unreasonable. If I recall from your last post I think the only issue I had was that you texted her instead of calling...but its not so serious that she needs to be THIS angry about it.
I know its not always the best answer (and I might get a beat down for saying it) but maybe being pregnant is making her a lil crazy? You definitely need to talk to her though...if she won't answer your calls, go to her house with the gift and try to talk it out.
Exactly, the only reason I texted her was since she was at she shower I know she's not gonna be talking on her cell, so for curtisy I texted her since I spoke with her on the phone prior. I mean I'm calling her house and 2 cell numbers and no answer ....and I know she's sitting there just not picking up. I know I should just go to her house but I always call anyone before hand. I find it rude just to show up but maybe I should just do that.
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Imo, and if this were me, I'd just leave it alone. You've done your part, asked about her shower, apologized numerous times, and initiated the calling.
If she's still mad let her stew in it for awhile and be mad. You did 0 wrong. I might just send a text saying, 'I've tried calling but can't reach you. I still have your gift so give me a call so we can arrange a time for me to give it to you!.' Leave the ball in her court and keep it open-ended.
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If she is really that pissed off I think that you should stand up for yourself because I really think she's being unreasonable. If I recall from your last post I think the only issue I had was that you texted her instead of calling...but its not so serious that she needs to be THIS angry about it.
I know its not always the best answer (and I might get a beat down for saying it) but maybe being pregnant is making her a lil crazy? You definitely need to talk to her though...if she won't answer your calls, go to her house with the gift and try to talk it out.
ITA[/QUOT ITA too! but i would just stop off at her house and drop off the gift(thats the excuse i would use) and that way you can talk to her in person... GL!
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If she is really that pissed off I think that you should stand up for yourself because I really think she's being unreasonable. If I recall from your last post I think the only issue I had was that you texted her instead of calling...but its not so serious that she needs to be THIS angry about it.
I know its not always the best answer (and I might get a beat down for saying it) but maybe being pregnant is making her a lil crazy? You definitely need to talk to her though...if she won't answer your calls, go to her house with the gift and try to talk it out.
ITA[/QUOT ITA too! but i would just stop off at her house and drop off the gift(thats the excuse i would use) and that way you can talk to her in person... GL!
ITA too! she's probably having hormone overload to be so upset with you missing her shower even after knowing that your FIs life was endangered.
how is FI doing btw? i hope is getting better?
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I don't think you have any reason to be sorry! Your husband's help comes before any shower!
