So Im compiling a wedding day list for FH............

Original post by AS

Oct 02, 2007 10:12 AM

Im compiling a list of DO's and DONT's for FH to abide by on our wedding day. Sorry to say but FH's can be dumba$$es sometimes Girls dont quote me on some of them, most are for comedic purposes. Please add:

DONT:
-dont get drunk
-dont disapear with your friends the whole night
-dont get lap dances from the belly dancers
-dont mess up the dancing circle
-dont step on my dress
-dont knock my cake over
-dont pick up the money on the floor left for the band
-dont spill anything on me
-dont eat my food left on my plate
-dont give anyone an attitude
-dont embarass me or our guests
-dont act like an a$$ in front of everyone

DO:
-do pay attention to me all night
-do compliment me all night
-do get me a drink when I ask
-do smile when taking pics
-do I cant think of anymore do's
-do dip me when we are dancing but dont drop me
-do greet everyone appropriately

DNS91308 Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:24 AM

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Posted by MPAS

Posted by DNS91308

Posted by missliss

FH's only real don't is to not get drunk before the ceremony as well. I know he hears me when I say this and i know he understands me and I know in my heart of hearts that he will not....or better not. My problem is his GMs and brother (his BM). They will get a kick out of pissing me off and if they make him do shots (FH can drink you under the table but he can't handle shots) so help me god.

Dont - get drunk before the ceremony
Dont - complain about having to pose for pictures

Do - Dance with me all night

YESSSSS my FH always complains but everything, he is worse than I am. Im afraid when we do our eshoot it will be a disater , I think I may do it by myself

If i could i would get a cardboard cutout of FH and pose with that for my e-pics..... FH is like a child, he cant sit still for longer then 10 seconds...

anneandchris Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:25 AM

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I guess I am lucky my only Don't is pushing cake in my face. He knows this annoys me more then anything and it is the only thing that gets me worked up so he loves holding it over my head.

As for the drunk before the ceremony -- i am telling the priest to tell him that he if he shows up drunk he won't marry us -- that should scare him enough to keep the drinking to a minimum!

Espo22 Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:26 AM

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Posted by missliss

Posted by Espo22

Posted by missliss

FH's only real don't is to not get drunk before the ceremony as well. I know he hears me when I say this and i know he understands me and I know in my heart of hearts that he will not....or better not. My problem is his GMs and brother (his BM). They will get a kick out of pissing me off and if they make him do shots (FH can drink you under the table but he can't handle shots) so help me god.

say ok do 1 shot before the ceremony or maybe 2 shots lol...im not a drinker but i think i might have to do a shot before the ceremony.

I'm just afraid of opening up the floodgates you know. His brother and his friends, I love them I do, but they look for any reason to do multiple shots. FH normally chimes in with beer in hand, but doesn't do shots (he knows his body...um, rejects them, I think is the least gross way to say it). But he also likes to do with the flow so if they're all like, c'mon do one shot it's your wedding day, he'll do it. And then they'll say it again and he'll do it again....and then it's all downhill after that. I almost want to lock his brother in a room until he has to walk down the aisle.
I on the other hand, will have had just the right amount of mimosas that day to make the sound of my dad getting on my case about something I'm sure, more bearable.

FMIL will be watching FH that day oh god i cant even try to imagine the way his friends will be, if he listened to them he would come to the wedding trashed.

AS Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:26 AM

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Posted by SoVic08

we both agreed not to drink before photos lol it shows in our faces

um- i have a few DONT's but some 's here know who i'd be talkin about lol so im keep it to myself

it has to do with his friends

Please share

Mizzdimple Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:27 AM

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HAHAHHH

DONT STARE AT THE BELLY DANCER SLOL

missliss Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:29 AM

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Posted by DNS91308

Posted by missliss

FH's only real don't is to not get drunk before the ceremony as well. I know he hears me when I say this and i know he understands me and I know in my heart of hearts that he will not....or better not. My problem is his GMs and brother (his BM). They will get a kick out of pissing me off and if they make him do shots (FH can drink you under the table but he can't handle shots) so help me god.

Dont - get drunk before the ceremony
Dont - complain about having to pose for pictures

Do - Dance with me all night

Oh I know he's going to complain about pictures, he hates them. I was actually showing him some pics I saved that are my 'must take' shots and he was already stomping his feet. I told him I will not deal with that attitude the day of so he better figure out a way to deal with it.

AS Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:30 AM

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Posted by missliss

Posted by DNS91308

Posted by missliss

FH's only real don't is to not get drunk before the ceremony as well. I know he hears me when I say this and i know he understands me and I know in my heart of hearts that he will not....or better not. My problem is his GMs and brother (his BM). They will get a kick out of pissing me off and if they make him do shots (FH can drink you under the table but he can't handle shots) so help me god.

Dont - get drunk before the ceremony
Dont - complain about having to pose for pictures

Do - Dance with me all night

Oh I know he's going to complain about pictures, he hates them. I was actually showing him some pics I saved that are my 'must take' shots and he was already stomping his feet. I told him I will not deal with that attitude the day of so he better figure out a way to deal with it.

Thats a good one, no attitude the day of

SoVic08 Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:30 AM

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basically- i don't want

his friends disappearing- i dont wanna see a certain someone acting all slow motion and f***t up bc i will pull him by his ear- and give him a fresh ONE!!!!!!

denise knows hehe

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AS Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:32 AM

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Posted by SoVic08

basically- i don't want

his friends disappearing- i dont wanna see a certain someone acting all slow motion and f***t up bc i will pull him by his ear- and give him a fresh ONE!!!!!!

denise knows hehe

I like your little comics at the bottom. Yeah FH's friends UMMMM YEAP

Future Mulligan Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:36 AM

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i told FH not to get drunk before the reception BUT i think that the one we really have to worry about is ME

DNS91308 Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:37 AM

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Posted by MPAS

Posted by SoVic08

basically- i don't want

his friends disappearing- i dont wanna see a certain someone acting all slow motion and f***t up bc i will pull him by his ear- and give him a fresh ONE!!!!!!

denise knows hehe

I like your little comics at the bottom. Yeah FH's friends UMMMM YEAP

I dont care about the drinking, just please dont be a mess and make sure its after the pictures... I dont think they can photoshop out drunken stupors....last time i was at a wedding FH ended up with red wine all over him... i dont really know how....

davenjess Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:38 AM

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Don't make STUPID faces instead of smiling naturally in EVERY SINGLE PICTURE!!!

This is a huge one for my FH!!!

Espo22 Posted: Oct 02, 2007 10:46 AM

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Posted by SoVic08

basically- i don't want

his friends disappearing- i dont wanna see a certain someone acting all slow motion and f***t up bc i will pull him by his ear- and give him a fresh ONE!!!!!!

denise knows hehe

its funny bc once you said it, a name popped into my head

anneandchris Posted: Oct 02, 2007 12:10 PM

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Posted by Espo22

I know one thing FH is gonna request of me, DON'T BE LATE!!!! but i know i'll be late i will try not to but oh god im always late

I am always late too -- I mean always. Everyday FH asks me how late are you going to be for the wedding? I say I won't be since someone else is doing my hair and makeup and I only have one outfit choice. But I do have a 45 minute ride to the church!

Espo22 Posted: Oct 02, 2007 12:12 PM

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Posted by anneandchris

Posted by Espo22

I know one thing FH is gonna request of me, DON'T BE LATE!!!! but i know i'll be late i will try not to but oh god im always late

I am always late too -- I mean always. Everyday FH asks me how late are you going to be for the wedding? I say I won't be since someone else is doing my hair and makeup and I only have one outfit choice. But I do have a 45 minute ride to the church!

YEAH THATS what i keep thinking too, that i have others doing my hair and make up plus my biggest problem is not knowing what to wear, but that day i wont have a problem with that lol...My ride isn't that bad, if theres no traffic it will be about 15 mins but somehow i think ill do something that will make me late...ill probably forget something at home and have to go back knowing me

minibride08 Posted: Oct 02, 2007 12:18 PM

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Posted by MPAS

Im compiling a list of DO's and DONT's for FH to abide by on our wedding day. Sorry to say but FH's can be dumba$$es sometimes Girls dont quote me on some of them, most are for comedic purposes. Please add:

DONT:
-dont get drunk
-dont disapear with your friends the whole night
-dont get lap dances from the belly dancers
-dont mess up the dancing circle
-dont step on my dress
-dont knock my cake over
-dont pick up the money on the floor left for the band
-dont spill anything on me
-dont eat my food left on my plate
-dont give anyone an attitude

DO:
-do pay attention to me all night
-do compliment me all night
-do get me a drink when I ask
-do smile when taking pics
-do I cant think of anymore do's

This is GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AS Posted: Oct 02, 2007 12:20 PM

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My FH is the opposite, every time we go out and we say a certain time to be ready and at my house he is ALWAYS on time, I have to get ready 3 hours before the due time, so wedding day I will prob be awake by 4 AM, hahahaha

Espo22 Posted: Oct 02, 2007 12:23 PM

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Posted by MPAS

My FH is the opposite, every time we go out and we say a certain time to be ready and at my house he is ALWAYS on time, I have to get ready 3 hours before the due time, so wedding day I will prob be awake by 4 AM, hahahaha

MY Fh is always on time too and gets mad at me when were late bc of me lol...i take about 30-45 mins to get ready, my problem is that i wait until the last possible minute to start.

empressdani Posted: Oct 02, 2007 12:31 PM

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I'm notebooking this thread b/c there are so many things on these lists that i'm going to have to go over w/ FH.

The only thing I'd add is

DON'T put on your dress shirt until RIGHT before its time to leave!

FH is terrible when it comes to keeping a white shirt clean. It's like once he puts it on there is a magnetic force that emanates from him attracting all staining food or drink!! I'm so worried that he'll show up to the ceremony wearing his cocktail

KK Holiday Posted: Oct 02, 2007 12:39 PM

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Posted by MPAS

Im compiling a list of DO's and DONT's for FH to abide by on our wedding day. Sorry to say but FH's can be dumba$$es sometimes Girls dont quote me on some of them, most are for comedic purposes. Please add:

DONT:
-dont get drunk
-dont disapear with your friends the whole night
-dont get lap dances from the belly dancers
-dont mess up the dancing circle
-dont step on my dress
-dont knock my cake over
-dont pick up the money on the floor left for the band
-dont spill anything on me
-dont eat my food left on my plate
-dont give anyone an attitude
-dont embarass me or our guests
-dont act like an a$$ in front of everyone

DO:
-do pay attention to me all night
-do compliment me all night
-do get me a drink when I ask
-do smile when taking pics
-do I cant think of anymore do's
-do dip me when we are dancing but dont drop me
-do greet everyone appropriately