Anne Marie Taller of East Quogue died giving birth at Southampton Hospital on September 13. She was 31.
A graduate of the University of Tennessee, Mrs. Taller maintained a private practice as an occupational therapist, servicing the Southampton School District. She was a member of Sacred Heart of Jesus and Mary Church in Southampton and volunteered as a leader of its youth group.
She is survived by her husband, Derek; two daughters, Blair and Bianca Marie; in-laws Ruth and Serge Taller of New York City; four sisters, Margo Sosinski, Michelle Blair of Colorado, Teresa Blair of Maryland, and Jenny Blair of Tennessee; three brothers, Robert Blair of Colorado, and Peter and Matthew Blair, both of Tennessee; an aunt, Geralyn Sweeney; and two cousins, Sara and Sheila Sweeney of Remsenburg.
She was predeceased by her parents, Meg and Larry Blair.
A wake was held at Follett and Werner Funeral Home in Westhampton Beach on Thursday, September 16, and religious services were held at the Church of the Immaculate Conception in Quiogue on Friday, September 17.
julz33
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Very sad Do you know her?
holly231
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no, I do not know her, but I came across this obituary in the Southampton Press. I cannot imagine the feelings going on...gaining a new child, and losing her mom.
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My doc delivered her baby. I heard my doc took it really hard. It is horrible. She had an anyerism but they delivered her daughter.
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That's awful. You'd think that would be so rare these days. . .
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This is what my recurring nightmare is... I die in my dream while giving birth... then I am a ghost and I see my FH holding the baby crying and there is a sheet over me. I have this same dream over and over. I am so scared to have kids now.
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My doc delivered her baby. I heard my doc took it really hard. It is horrible. She had an anyerism but they delivered her daughter.
aww Karen, so sad for your doc, I cannot imagine what the doc was going through....it just proces we are all humand and have feelings...I cannot imagine being there knowing what had just happened. May God watch over this family who lost their mother, and your doc who delivered the new miracle
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My doc delivered her baby. I heard my doc took it really hard. It is horrible. She had an anyerism but they delivered her daughter.
aww Karen, so sad for your doc, I cannot imagine what the doc was going through....it just proces we are all humand and have feelings...I cannot imagine being there knowing what had just happened. May God watch over this family who lost their mother, and your doc who delivered the new miracle
Amen
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That is so sad. A girl I worked with also died while giving birth .. and I also thought how difficult that must be .. gaining a child, but losing your wife.
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Wow, that is so sad. Julz I have had similar dreams. I was terrified when I gave birth to my baby. My mother was also very scared (she was in the delivery room with us) because she remembers the nightmares I used to have of me dying during labor when I was child.
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Soooo sad...
I also used to work with someone who died in childbirth -- it was such a shock....
That poor family!
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My doc delivered her baby. I heard my doc took it really hard. It is horrible. She had an anyerism but they delivered her daughter.
can I tell you guys...ever since I saw JerseY Girl (the same thing happened to J Lo inthe movie) ....I am scared of this happening to me!
their poor family
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that is so sad..i saw jersey girl also and that movie hit hard..i have always wondered what it would be like to lose someone or myself..how scary
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That's awful. You'd think that would be so rare these days. . .
it's absolutely not rare...such a big misconception.
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That's awful. You'd think that would be so rare these days. . .
it's absolutely not rare...such a big misconception.
that's it. I am seriously considering a C section now.
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The woman had an anyerism... it was going to happen whether she was under stress from labor or under stress taking care of 2 kids. It was like a time bomb waiting to go off. In a weird way it was a good thing she was with other people when it happened so her kids werent home with her alone...
My dad also had an anyerism in 91 and passed away. Its a truely tramatic experience for all involved.
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Posted by BMD'sPeanut
Posted by tourist
That's awful. You'd think that would be so rare these days. . .
it's absolutely not rare...such a big misconception.
that's it. I am seriously considering a C section now.
I could find some news story about nurses and docs leaving sponges and surgical equipment inside their patients for you
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Posted by MrsTC can I tell you guys...ever since I saw JerseY Girl (the same thing happened to J Lo inthe movie) ....I am scared of this happening to me!
their poor family
Wow, you sound just like me! I have been thinking and thinking about the subject of aneurysms ever since seeing Jersey Girl. I have truly convinced myself that this is going to happen to me someday. Bad enough I suffer from constant headaches/migranines , so I always think SOMETHING is going on in there !!
The original story posted is so terribly tragic. So young and so sad to die in childbirth
May God bless her children and family
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The woman had an anyerism... it was going to happen whether she was under stress from labor or under stress taking care of 2 kids. It was like a time bomb waiting to go off. In a weird way it was a good thing she was with other people when it happened so her kids werent home with her alone...
My dad also had an anyerism in 91 and passed away. Its a truely tramatic experience for all involved.
i'm sorry to hear that Karen
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Hey, I'm one of those people who a doctor left a surgical item in while I gave birth. The nurses were suppose to remove the item soon after birth once the bleedinf ceased, but...THEY FORGOT ( and I was not aware that it was in there)!! I found it a few days later at home, I'm licky I didn't die of sepsis!!!!
