So lets talk!

About your relationship...since FH has been gone (which feels like forever!) I have been thinking a lot about our relationship.
How is your relationship with FH?
Are you guys the 'perfect couple'?
Do you bicker, fight...
Live together, a part...
Are you nervous about anything getting married?


I am so in love with FH, its crazy lol. We have been through a lot good and bad. We are such a mixed couple...sometimes we bicker every day, sometimes we are 'perfect'.
We dont live together yet so I am a little nervous about living with him. Mainly becasue now when we do get into a fight, I eescape to my parents to get away. I cant do that when we are married!!

Share ladies! How about you????

I don't think there is such a thing as the 'perfect' couple, but I know that FH is the perfect person for me personally ... there is no one else in this world who I feel more comfortable in front of or who gets me as well as he does. Plus, we have very distinct senses of humor that complement each other very nicely.

Basically, I know that there's no one else in this world who I would want to be with for the rest of my life, even when we are arguing or not getting along.

Awwww ... so sappy LOL ... I think it's almost time for bed because I'm grossing myself out

What a sweet thread to start!

How is our relationship? AMAZING-I would go through all the years of disastrous boyfriends and dates ten times over if I knew it would lead me to FH. He feels the exact same way.
Are we considered a perfect couple? I would say we are perfect for each other.
Do we bicker or fight? Rarely, neither of us are hot heads and we are open about EVERYTHING..
We live together, he moved in after like 5 or 6 months! It happened so naturally, there was never a 'move in date' or anything.
We are ecstatic about getting married! We wish we didn't have to wait almost 7 more months..

I think what makes FH and I work so well is that we both have a lot of past relationship experience and life experience. By the time we met I was 28, He was 32, and we had already made all the mistakes and learned how to love someone. Literally after a few weeks we both knew this was it. When you know, you just know....

fh and i have known each other since we r twelve..he was my best friend before we ever dated...he knows me better than anyone in the world and truly makes me a better person when im with him...of course we bicker and fight but i think if we didnt we would not be normal...we r def not the perfect couple..we r just perfect for eac other....i am grateful to have him in my life..what can i say he is the peanut butter to my jelly

FH and I live together already and he says 'Why are we even getting married.. we act like an old married couple already'... And seriously we do LOL.. Then as he states ' I guess I gotta make this Italian into a Cuban.. No more guinny name for you' lolol

We are good for each other even though we do argue ALOT.. I'm taking him from a Momma's boy and turning him into a man

how is our relationship? I think if I had to pick one word it would be STRONG. I was 38 and he was 39 when we met. So I have to echo Mirabella and say that by the time we met, we knew how to be in love with someone and love them (sometimes they're 2 different things).

Are we considered the perfect couple? Not at all. But we compliment each other perfectly and balance each other out, so we are perfect for each other!

Do we fight? Yes - sometimes more than others. However, I find that I always feel closer to him after a fight because we've usually resolved the issue (or agreed that it can't be resolved and we both have to deal with it the way it is).

We do not officially live together. However, he is here almost every night. He officially lives with his grandfather. I told him from the very beginning of our relationship that I didn't want a roommate and he wasn't allowed to move in unless we were engaged. Once we got engaged, we decided to look for a house so we are keeping our shacking up arrangement the way it is rather than his having to move here first and then into a house.

We can't wait to get married! What makes us work? The fact that we are older definitely helps. We have both been alone before and we like being together better!

My relationship with FH is great! We've been thru a lot of tough times over the years and have always come out on top and stronger from it.

We are far from being the perfect couple We are opposites on just about everything!!! Ebony and Ivory! We were raised very differently and come from very different backgrounds but it keeps things interesting and we are always learning from eachother!

Used to fight a lot in the beginning, mainly because we are so different but once we got to know eachother we learned to work together and how to really be with one another.

We do live together and have for about 2 years or so. At first it was really difficult but again, once we adjusted and got used to it we realized that we want to be together forever.

I have to say, no, we're not at all nervous about getting married. By the time we get married I'll be 30 and he'll be 35 and we're both ready and cannot wait for our day!