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So mad!!!

giggles62 Posted:

So mad!!!

Need to vent!!! I picked my BM dress forever ago. Then I changed the dress last month. All the girls ordered the dress except one!!! The store called me almost 3 weeks ago to tell me they were still waiting for her to come in. I called her and she said she was going. They called again saying that she has not gone. I called her and she told me blah blah blah!!! It takes 5 minutes to leave a deposit and get measured. She told me she will go. This morning I just called the store and she still has not gone.

I just left her a msg. I am going to tell her that she needs to be there by Wed or they are ordering the dress. I feel bad but obviously she does not care and she has too many other things going on to go and get measured.

The store told me it can be rushed If she does not go soon but then everyone else is going to get charged a $40 rush charge and that is not fair to the other girls.

So when she calls back (if she calls back cause we play phone tag a lot) How should I say this too her?

She got married and went through all of this. I know she is busy with a baby and buying and fixing her new house but then back out!!!
aprlflwr Posted:

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That stinks!!!! I think you should stick to your deadline plan of Wednesday. She is not being fair to you or the rest of your BP.
EverlovingEv Posted:

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tell her about the 40 charge everyone is going to have to pay. that's not fair to the rest of you BP.

dante31300 Posted:

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Just order the rest of the girls dresses and if she really wants to be in it she can pay the rush fee for her dress. I know they say you shouldn't do this b/c of the color issue but I have read from a lot of girls on here that the dress will be the same color regardless of whether it is ordered together or not.

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MnM52607 Posted:

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That stinks!!!
billandme Posted:

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Posted by dante31300

Just order the rest of the girls dresses and if she really wants to be in it she can pay the rush fee for her dress. I know they say you shouldn't do this b/c of the color issue but I have read from a lot of girls on here that the dress will be the same color regardless of whether it is ordered together or not.

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Agreed, OR tell her she will have to pay for everyones rush charge since she is the only one taking her time getting this done..,.

sorry you are dealing with this!
Shorty McBride Posted:

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oooooo that's annoying!

If I were in your situation, I'd tell that BM that the order is being placed on Wednesday. If her measurements aren't included in the order, she won't have a dress and cannot be in the wedding.

Some people!
karen913 Posted:

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thats not fair and not cool to do to the rest of your BP trust me i know the feeling i have a friend that i wanted in my bp but she has made it abudnently clear that she does not wanna do anything for the wedding so i booted her and honestly this is your day so it should be how u always pictured it and without any added on stress!
good luck
heatherandrichie Posted:

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Posted by Shorty McBride

oooooo that's annoying!

If I were in your situation, I'd tell that BM that the order is being placed on Wednesday. If her measurements aren't included in the order, she won't have a dress and cannot be in the wedding.

Some people!

I think this sounds best! I was just in the same boat!

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