So yesterday we when to see another limo place and FH got so mad at me b/c i want to get ready by the RH but my church is out of the way and they told me if i would do that ..that means that i need TWO limos ..and i really dont want two ..its too much money and now i have no idea what to do and everytime i say something about it FH gets pissed ...and now i dont even want to talk about wedding stuff with him ...it just gets him all mad ...this is getting to be a pain and now i have no idea where to get ready ...i wish i had my own house to get ready in and this would not be a problem ..sucks.......
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Im sry you are upset. I understand why you are upset because my FH does this to me too. To top it off I think he does it just to make me mad because in the end I always get what I want. Dont stress it because it will work out. Why dont you call other limo companys and try to get prices or see if they will be able to pick you up with one limo. I just called Camelot and they seemed like they would be flexiable and the prices of limos are not bad.
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Sorry your upset Maybe you and FH should just take a break from talking about the wedding for a bit and then you both have time to cool over and not stress.
How far away is your church from you RH? Are there any hotels around your church where you can get ready and then the limo can take you the the church and then the RH? Also, continue to contact other limo companies because they may not all be the same and can accommodate you for what you need. Don't get discouraged. You have plenty of time and it will all work out. Just have to think of your options and discuss what you wants with dif companies and see who will fit what you need best.
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i hear you all the way! I completely know how you feel.My FH also gets the same way. At one point i told him he can plan the whole wedding and i will stay out of it.lol. i love him to death but lately with this whole wedding planning he's been getting on my nerves. so far i been doing all the appointments and research. everything will work out just fine.
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Sorry your upset Maybe you and FH should just take a break from talking about the wedding for a bit and then you both have time to cool over and not stress.
How far away is your church from you RH? Are there any hotels around your church where you can get ready and then the limo can take you the the church and then the RH? Also, continue to contact other limo companies because they may not all be the same and can accommodate you for what you need. Don't get discouraged. You have plenty of time and it will all work out. Just have to think of your options and discuss what you wants with dif companies and see who will fit what you need best.
I'm very sorry to hear that you are upset. I agree with Jassy's suggestions. It will all work out honey. =) Planning a wedding can be stressful and is enough to make anyone argue. Can you believe that I had an argument with FH over the bridal party color?!
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Sorry your upset Maybe you and FH should just take a break from talking about the wedding for a bit and then you both have time to cool over and not stress.
How far away is your church from you RH? Are there any hotels around your church where you can get ready and then the limo can take you the the church and then the RH? Also, continue to contact other limo companies because they may not all be the same and can accommodate you for what you need. Don't get discouraged. You have plenty of time and it will all work out. Just have to think of your options and discuss what you wants with dif companies and see who will fit what you need best.
I'm very sorry to hear that you are upset. I agree with Jassy's suggestions. It will all work out honey. =) Planning a wedding can be stressful and is enough to make anyone argue. Can you believe that I had an argument with FH over the bridal party color?!
OMG he fought with you over the BP colors? LOL What did he want and what did you want? I'm curious?? Its funny.. in 1 of the magazines I subscribe to (I forget which 1 or which month) their was an article about GROOMZILAS! Guys were getting crazy over flowers and stuff you think we'd normally stress over.
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Sorry your upset Maybe you and FH should just take a break from talking about the wedding for a bit and then you both have time to cool over and not stress.
How far away is your church from you RH? Are there any hotels around your church where you can get ready and then the limo can take you the the church and then the RH? Also, continue to contact other limo companies because they may not all be the same and can accommodate you for what you need. Don't get discouraged. You have plenty of time and it will all work out. Just have to think of your options and discuss what you wants with dif companies and see who will fit what you need best.
I'm very sorry to hear that you are upset. I agree with Jassy's suggestions. It will all work out honey. =) Planning a wedding can be stressful and is enough to make anyone argue. Can you believe that I had an argument with FH over the bridal party color?!
OMG he fought with you over the BP colors? LOL What did he want and what did you want? I'm curious?? Its funny.. in 1 of the magazines I subscribe to (I forget which 1 or which month) their was an article about GROOMZILAS! Guys were getting crazy over flowers and stuff you think we'd normally stress over.
Wow color..that is crazy
My church is in babylon and the closes hotel is farmingdale i think...but i dont want to bring all my stuff and my BM ( who ever is there ) in the limo after its just going to be a pain...and ive talked to four limo companies and the one we just saw was the best price so far....and now im running out of places and alot of them said the samething for me to get ready close to the house ..so im at a stand still right now b/c i have no idea what to do ...it would be so much easier if i had a full time job things would be better now...sucks
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He was really gung-ho about the bp color. Lol Ready for this...he wants green because of the NY Jets. I am a Jets fan too, but I want a shade of purple. The good news is I was able to compromise with him. I told him that we can take a picture wearing Jets jerseys and put in our save the dates. It looks like purple will be our color.
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So yesterday we when to see another limo place and FH got so mad at me b/c i want to get ready by the RH but my church is out of the way and they told me if i would do that ..that means that i need TWO limos ..and i really dont want two ..its too much money and now i have no idea what to do and everytime i say something about it FH gets pissed ...and now i dont even want to talk about wedding stuff with him ...it just gets him all mad ...this is getting to be a pain and now i have no idea where to get ready ...i wish i had my own house to get ready in and this would not be a problem ..sucks.......
I'm sorry! That is frustrating. Who knows though? Maybe in 19 months you will have a house!! If not, you can send us away for the day and use ours!
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Sorry your upset Maybe you and FH should just take a break from talking about the wedding for a bit and then you both have time to cool over and not stress.
How far away is your church from you RH? Are there any hotels around your church where you can get ready and then the limo can take you the the church and then the RH? Also, continue to contact other limo companies because they may not all be the same and can accommodate you for what you need. Don't get discouraged. You have plenty of time and it will all work out. Just have to think of your options and discuss what you wants with dif companies and see who will fit what you need best.
I'm very sorry to hear that you are upset. I agree with Jassy's suggestions. It will all work out honey. =) Planning a wedding can be stressful and is enough to make anyone argue. Can you believe that I had an argument with FH over the bridal party color?!
OMG he fought with you over the BP colors? LOL What did he want and what did you want? I'm curious?? Its funny.. in 1 of the magazines I subscribe to (I forget which 1 or which month) their was an article about GROOMZILAS! Guys were getting crazy over flowers and stuff you think we'd normally stress over.
Meanwhile my FH is like 'you should be happy you have the freedom to do what you want with our wedding!'. I asked him when he was able to book the photographer, he's like 'eh. Take your mom. You researched this. I trust you'. So, today I called him and told him that Im pretty sure on which florist we are booking...since he's not coming he gets no say with my pick of a hot pink calla lily boutonniere with stephanotis and pink crystals to match!
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ETA sorry about the random icons above my post... It's wine and s'mores night again and I'm not used to an iPad
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Any family members live in Babylon?
Irishbride16
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ETA sorry about the random icons above my post... It's wine and s'mores night again and I'm not used to an iPad
Oh no...LOL... Thats great!@ well its close the food and wine was next to the house!
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Any family members live in Babylon?
No i wish i did ...but i dont ..they all live out east and the other side of my family i dont talk too so that does not help..im thinking of one thing though i dunno if it will work ..im uncle Barn lives in the back of me ...but i dunno if i could use his house ..i dont want him going crazy he is 90 so i dunno what to do .and i dont want to feel that he has too you know...
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He was really gung-ho about the bp color. Lol Ready for this...he wants green because of the NY Jets. I am a Jets fan too, but I want a shade of purple. The good news is I was able to compromise with him. I told him that we can take a picture wearing Jets jerseys and put in our save the dates. It looks like purple will be our color.
