So many choices for RH

We are getting married Columbus Day weekend of 2008. Been looking for venues...I am from Staten Island and FH is from Connecticut so we are looking in the Bronx, New Rochelle, Queens area because those are about midway.

I know there have been postings about this--but many seem like from a long time ago.
Anyone been married recently at either of these places?
-Surf Club New Rochelle
-Glen Island Harbor
-Marina del Rey

We went to MdR first and fell in love, but are not sure if/how they deal with multiple weddings at the same time...(ie do they spread them out, overlap, bathrooms, etc)

We liked Glen Island but they might do not have availability to do the ceremony at the time we want.

Surf Club seemed like good food but we witnessed two Staff Members that seemed pretty rude

Advice? Comments? Reviews?

Any help would be greatly appreciated. We have looked at so many places but cannot decide.

Thanks in advance