So many of you know that thanks to Anti-Bride's quest for pic threads

I went plowing through the history of LIweddings and have read literally hundreds, if not thousands of threads over the last 2-3 days. It is amazing that many of the posts are almost exactly the same as ours with the joys, worries, troubles, fights, and even the occasional D word. The amazing thing is that I feel like I have a mirror ball into the future -- I know all of these great tips to deal with impeding crises -- ways that have worked to handle different situations, how to handle rambunctions FG's...you name it it has been posted.
So consider this a PSA:
One, take the time to look up a topic you are concerned, thinking about -- chances are someone has had the thought before.
Two, Take comfort in the fact that every single problem I have heard (wedding related and many of ther personal issues) has been talked about before.
Three, every possible photographer has been discussed and problem with photo/video analyzed -- so take a peek before you stress over stuff.
They have even had some of the same fights. I have bumped those I think will be most helpful but feel free to FM me if I can help direct you to something arcane I have read.
In keeping with that -- here is one I think is among the very best -- advice from married to the bride:http://www.liweddings.com/chat/topic.aspx?ID=47884&P=2