so my brother wont talk to me..

His girlfriend is a nasty biitch!!

For the past year and a half, she has been treating me like a child, talking down to me and just treating me like shiit.
'wow, we need to find a better condition for your hair'
'when was the last time you got your nails done?'
'we gotta wax those eye brows' yada yada
not to mention the snotty other bull shiiit i have to deal with with her.

We threw my brother a suprise bday party at CLM in December. $4000 towards that party, was my deposit from when I was going to get married there 2 years ago. The other $2000 she was supposed to pay. A week before the party she askes me for my half of the $2000 to pay for the rest of the party, plus my half of the DJ money, which she agreed to pay for. UM W T F NOOOO you agreed to pay that. She didnt remember that. I wound up paying for the DJ (and balloons and everything else) and she paid the $2000 for the hall. Then she made the party to be all about how SHE threw him the party and was the best girlfriend ever.


So Sunday she brings her 2 beasts of dogs over to see if they get along with my 2 docs. My puppy was TERRIFIED. I was sitting on the stairs and one of her dogs came over, my puppy jumped in my lap shaking. She goes 'ya right she looks real scared' so i say 'she just jumped in my lap and shes shaking' she goes super super nasty 'yeah i dont believe you'

i finally snapped. and told her to get the eff out of my house. and went into my room with my dog.

so they leave (in seperate cars) and she texts me being insanely nasty and we get into a huge fight.

now my brother wont talk to me, wont hear my side of the story and she is acting like a little princess who does nothing wrong and its all about her. Hes mad at me for being disrespectful and now hates me.



W T F do i doooooooooooo


super long sorry :(

Hello weekend twin....

first of all, does it feel good to vent?? usually makes me feel better.

secondly, take a deep breath. he is your brother. he will come around. usually you just have to give guys a few days to cool off and then they act like nothing happened. but when it is all calmed down you should talk to him about how his gf treats you. its not right and you don't deserve that. he should have more respect for you than to let her treat you like that.

PS...you picked the best weekend for your wedding

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Posted by JTG4EVER

Hello weekend twin....

first of all, does it feel good to vent?? usually makes me feel better.

secondly, take a deep breath. he is your brother. he will come around. usually you just have to give guys a few days to cool off and then they act like nothing happened. but when it is all calmed down you should talk to him about how his gf treats you. its not right and you don't deserve that. he should have more respect for you than to let her treat you like that.

PS...you picked the best weekend for your wedding

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VENTING DEF FEELS GOOD!!


my wedding date is my parents anniversary best weekend everrrrrrrr lol

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Posted by The Cassie

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Posted by JTG4EVER

Hello weekend twin....

first of all, does it feel good to vent?? usually makes me feel better.

secondly, take a deep breath. he is your brother. he will come around. usually you just have to give guys a few days to cool off and then they act like nothing happened. but when it is all calmed down you should talk to him about how his gf treats you. its not right and you don't deserve that. he should have more respect for you than to let her treat you like that.

PS...you picked the best weekend for your wedding

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VENTING DEF FEELS GOOD!!


my wedding date is my parents anniversary best weekend everrrrrrrr lol

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Wow thats my parents anniversary too!! August 12, 1979!!! I picked the 13th because I wanted a Sat in aug. just worked out it was near their anniversary.

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Posted by JTG4EVER

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Posted by The Cassie

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Posted by JTG4EVER

Hello weekend twin....

first of all, does it feel good to vent?? usually makes me feel better.

secondly, take a deep breath. he is your brother. he will come around. usually you just have to give guys a few days to cool off and then they act like nothing happened. but when it is all calmed down you should talk to him about how his gf treats you. its not right and you don't deserve that. he should have more respect for you than to let her treat you like that.

PS...you picked the best weekend for your wedding

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VENTING DEF FEELS GOOD!!


my wedding date is my parents anniversary best weekend everrrrrrrr lol

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Wow thats my parents anniversary too!! August 12, 1979!!! I picked the 13th because I wanted a Sat in aug. just worked out it was near their anniversary.

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omg thats so funny my parents were married that same year!

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Posted by JTG4EVER

weird!!! mine were married at Fox Hollow....

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whew that would have been weird if they were married at the same place!

Mine were married at the narraganset in Lindenhurst, before it burnt down lol

the place they met also burnt down, as did our house the year after they bought it.


weird right? lol

So weird. My parents met at hte pizza place next to the pharmacy that they now own! Crazy. We are gonna have good luck sent to us by our parents

He'll come around...he probably wants to make sure his GF is ok because he knows he can talk to you. I agree with Corinne... if the issue persists, try to see if you can have mom mediate so you call can come to an understanding.



editted for agreement with Corinne Ann