So my sister...

is going crazy. She hasn't spoken to me in two days other to yell that I am butch and fat and ugly....and then she slapped me in the face as she walked by me yesterday morning. I don't even know what is going on! She lives at home, I am home for a few days. Oh, and she is my MOH and has now said twice to find a new one. This is all because I said that finding a teaching job is difficult right now, with all districts cutting back.

What the heck is going on?



Is she jealous of the wedding? Garrrrr, I am so over this. She is a nutcase

Oh no maybe give her some space and time and then try to talk to her to find out what's wrong. She just may be jealous of all the attention your getting w/ the wedding and w/ being home.

OMG, that is terrible. Sorry girl!

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Posted by IrishAli

The problem is that she never talks- she just screams until everyone around her gives in. She is a brat

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sounds like my sisters sometimes, just ignore her but do not let her put her hands on you again b/c that is NOT cool

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Posted by bubblichik

wow! What happened after she slapped you? did you do anything back. I would definitely not be able to deal with that.

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I kind of grabbed her hair (I am strong) to get her out of my face If she wants to get physical, she will lose. This is crazy- I am cooped up here....she is effing 25 years old! Act like an adult- and if something is wrong, say something- no screaming and physical violence. I am afraid that I have no choice- that she will ruin my wedding day as well. I think I have to replace her

wow, that's terrible.

she's your sister; she should be happy for you!

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsFox

wow, that's terrible.

she's your sister; she should be happy for you!

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I know. I don't even know what to do

oh no ali she's obviously got something else going on that she isn't talking about. Maybe just give her some space for a while and see if she snaps out of it. I'm sorry she is acting like that!

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Posted by MrsVMW

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Posted by IrishAli

The problem is that she never talks- she just screams until everyone around her gives in. She is a brat

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sounds like my sisters sometimes, just ignore her but do not let her put her hands on you again b/c that is NOT cool

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ITA with this. my sister is the same way, but physical fighting is definitely not the way to resolve this.

Oh my goodness...I feel terrible about this! All I can say is WOW...I cannot believe you are going through this...maybe talk to your parents about her? Honestly I would find a new MOH she sounds like she has some issues about you getting married. It seems to me she might be jealous....this sucks....you are supposed to be enjoying this time.

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Posted by leesah85

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Posted by MrsVMW

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Posted by IrishAli

The problem is that she never talks- she just screams until everyone around her gives in. She is a brat

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sounds like my sisters sometimes, just ignore her but do not let her put her hands on you again b/c that is NOT cool

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ITA with this. my sister is the same way, but physical fighting is definitely not the way to resolve this.

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Sounds like my sister most of the time minus the hitting

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Posted by bubblichik

I agree with talking to your parents. I would have a little 'meeting' about how you are feeling with your parents there and go from there. I am so sorry.

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I agree with this too. Hopefully your parents will mediate and not take sides with this issue. Sorry Ali.

That really sucks

I'd put my foot down and let her know she can't treat you that way, and if anything, get your parents to say something to her. So not cool :(

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Posted by adelz

That really sucks

I'd put my foot down and let her know she can't treat you that way, and if anything, get your parents to say something to her. So not cool :(

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ITA!!

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Posted by bubblichik

I agree with talking to your parents. I would have a little 'meeting' about how you are feeling with your parents there and go from there. I am so sorry.

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ITA! maybe ur prarent know what's happening to her since she still lives at home with them