So one of my BM and FH

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Oct 11, 2010 09:07 AM

So one of my BM and FH

got into it over Football....things were said, curse words were used and she removed herself from my bridal party.. Yippee for me

xoabxo Posted: Oct 11, 2010 09:11 AM

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ugh i am soo sorry

JennylovesStephen Posted: Oct 11, 2010 09:12 AM

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Sorry maybe they will put it behind them

angelabarra12 Posted: Oct 11, 2010 09:13 AM

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ahh maybe give it a few days and they'll both talk again...

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Oct 11, 2010 09:17 AM

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I hope so, but i really doubt it....
it's just disappointing because i don't like when i'm forced to choose and of course i'm gonna side with my FH, i think both of them were in the wrong..

BlushandBashful Posted: Oct 11, 2010 09:21 AM

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Over football????? UGH! So sorry you are dealing with that.

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Oct 11, 2010 09:31 AM

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Yea it started with that and escalated... I guess it's better now that it happened and not later..

MNM0805 Posted: Oct 11, 2010 10:27 AM

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Ohh man! I'm sorry hun! I hope things work out!

allornil Posted: Oct 11, 2010 10:30 AM

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wow, I find that problems or resentment thats brewing beneath the surface comes out w things like this.

Obviously the problem wasn't football.

I'm sorry. Maybe things will blow over.

annabellagirl Posted: Oct 11, 2010 10:30 AM

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UM OVER FOOTBALL??? Are you kidding me???

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Oct 11, 2010 10:33 AM

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Posted by annabellagirl

UM OVER FOOTBALL??? Are you kidding me???

It started around football, a snide remark was taken as disrespectful when it wasn't meant to be and then it just snowballed from there...

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Oct 11, 2010 10:37 AM

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She was complaining last week that it is costing her more $$ to be in my wedding (than to go to another one in California in May next year) cuz the BM dress is 135 or something.. I didn't think about it until now, but, i think that's a bit rude no? Am I overreacting?

mybabylovesmoi Posted: Oct 11, 2010 10:40 AM

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135 is very reasonable! Forget it, I hate people who agree to do something and complain the whole time and make you feel like poop!

Maybe it's good she's out if she's a whiner

allornil Posted: Oct 11, 2010 10:46 AM

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

135 is very reasonable! Forget it, I hate people who agree to do something and complain the whole time and make you feel like poop!

Maybe it's good she's out if she's a whiner

omg i so agree!

spdy540 Posted: Oct 11, 2010 10:49 AM

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sorry to hear that. what about football got that serious?

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Oct 11, 2010 10:54 AM

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Posted by spdy540

sorry to hear that. what about football got that serious?

It snowballed from that... meaning things were said on both ends that weren't exactly nice...

kimmaymb20 Posted: Oct 11, 2010 11:00 AM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

She was complaining last week that it is costing her more $$ to be in my wedding (than to go to another one in California in May next year) cuz the BM dress is 135 or something.. I didn't think about it until now, but, i think that's a bit rude no? Am I overreacting?

thats redonk!!!!!!!!! My sister is in a wedding in Nov and the dress was over $200 FROM DAIVIDS BRIDAL. People need to realize being in a wedding costs money and if they dont want to spend it then dont accept.

DCgirl82 Posted: Oct 11, 2010 11:01 AM

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Oh nooooo!!! Hopefully it will blow over!

bebita0830 Posted: Oct 11, 2010 11:03 AM

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Oh wow! Mari! that sounds pretty sad sorry to hear that. Hopefully ur FH and BM can make peace and she can be part of ur special day

jesstangney Posted: Oct 11, 2010 11:06 AM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

She was complaining last week that it is costing her more $$ to be in my wedding (than to go to another one in California in May next year) cuz the BM dress is 135 or something.. I didn't think about it until now, but, i think that's a bit rude no? Am I overreacting?

I am sure that she was just gunning for an excuse to back out of being in the wedding. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this, and it TOTALLY sucks. I'd be feeling the same way!