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so rude! ugh SWR

poisonivy918 Posted:

so rude! ugh SWR

I'm starting to hate my good friends bf. I wrote awhile ago when he asked me how he was getting to my wedding! now today he showed up here asking me to throw my friend a bday party this saturday! at my house of course. then I would pay for everything liquor, food, cake. but it would be all his idea! no thanks! he's like I know you guys have the wedding but she's never had a surprise bday party. well I haven't either! so boo hoo.

on top of this my bday is also in sept which I am having my own party for. so what am I supposed to cancel mine to throw her one? now he wants to rent out a bar, but have all my friends come & pay for it. she only has 5 friends (literally) no offense but why would people want to pay for a girls party who they don't even know? ugh. people should understand that planning a wedding usually means the couple is broke!

her only other good friend is my moh too. so she can't pay for anything either, she's already paying for all my parties. if a bf decides to throw a party for the gf shouldn't he pay? I just can't believe he showed up here asking me to throw her a party. for a minute I thought he just wanted to throw it here (which was fine) until I realized he wanted me to pay for everything.
bella1028 Posted:

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wow...thats a lot of nerve on his part...i totally agree with you

jgl Posted:

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what a loser

its not even the fact that you are broke cause of wedding planning. but who does he think he is to expect you to shell out all that $ even if you had it? if he wants to throw her a prty he should!
poisonivy918 Posted:

Re: so rude! ugh SWR


Posted by jgl

what a loser

its not even the fact that you are broke cause of wedding planning. but who does he think he is to expect you to shell out all that $ even if you had it? if he wants to throw her a prty he should!



exactly. if it was my idea and I had the money I'd do something like that. I would rather put out $40 and take her to a club in the city though. she loves going to clubs. or take her out to dinner. asking me to throw her a big bash was just rude. even worse is him wanting my friends to all chip in to rent a bar out. they might for the drinks, but it won't be for her everyone hates him so they probably still won't. no amount of alcohol will change that.
ChristineAaron08 Posted:

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big jerk! he has some nerve!!

CNC10408 Posted:

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WOW what a set on him!!


I can't believe he didn't even offer to pay anything at all....some people just don'[t care
klanghan Posted:

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wow, what an***hole. sorry you have to deal with him

lilangel369 Posted:

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woah ... that's so wrong .. if HE wants to throw the party HE should pay for it.

xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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exactly.. HE shoudl pay for it

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