so sad

so i always wanted a small wedding. and thats what i planned...

but now im wishing i invited more people.

im having a lil under 100 ppl... and i want like 150.which wont even fit in the room so thats not an option . i dont know why i feel the way i do.

i COULD invite a couple more..veryyy few more. but the rsvp card says rsvp by march 25.. ERF


ohwell

invite me. i will buy you a copy of the purple people eat movie. its got neil patrick harris in it.

i actually wish we were having a small & initmate wedding like you guys...but we both have big families and really cant cut anyone from the list

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Posted by grkbarbie

im sad.. not desperate.. check yo'self

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Barb, i will come thru from you, but i don't know if you forgive me for having a meeting in Atlanta and not making the gtg last week.

lol... i have to be clear. the issue isnt me not having people ..the issue is me being a bish from day 1 and limiting the guest list.


fh didnt even invite any1 form work..cuz that right there is 70 people. so im like NO WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

I wanted 200 max, and we are inviting 275. I wish we could have 100pp!!!

If you really want to add more, see if you can switch to a bigger room?? Add a few more that you really want. Sorry you're feeling sad about it

see..I'm the opposite..we originally wanted to guarantee 100-110 people. However, our RH would only lower our minimum to 120 so we were generous with our invites and invited people who we are friendly with but maybe wouldn't have invited if we had room space constraints. I was nervous about meeting our minimum and now we have 140 people. I kinda wish we were having a smaller wedding.. I hate being the center of attention.

Think of it this way.. you will have wayyyyyy less rsvp drama.

I think what your having is a great number. believe me that night you will think that its more than enough. you will have more opportunity to see everyone-and more importantly for everyone to see you.