-People are added guests to their RSVPs, when the invitation made it clear that there were no guest. -Other people thinks it okay to bring their children, when we said no children! -Our GM doesnt think he has time to get measure for a tux (yea, right!) -My OOT BP cant follow simple instructions, no one is coming to the RD and they keep asking me the same questions -My mother is always complaining about something
etc, etc.
Girls... I dont want to do this anymore!!
DMcK
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We all go through periods like this, it is normal. Keep reminding yourself how much you love FI and what a special day you'll share. Hang in there.
slwh2005
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It will all be worth it in the end!! (or so I'm told and I haven't even really begun!)
TwoBugs
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Posted by slwh2005
It will all be worth it in the end!! (or so I'm told and I haven't even really begun!)
Trust me - it will DEF. be worth it! Hang in there!!
rrdm782004
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I can relate to you , i was going through the same problems. I guest people just don't get when you say no children. It is a lot of money and have a budget. Don't worry that day you will not even worry about a guest list. It about you and your husband.
Dooodles
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sorry to hear you're going through this. Isn't this supposed to be a joyous time? You don't have much longer, hold out and just remember how much you love your FI - it will help you through!
sunshine1120
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I hear ya!--fellow nov bride and i havent even had any of those problems yet!
good luck
alexlynn7
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take a deep breath... it will all be okay.
as far as the guests who added people to the RSVPs, i would call them and politely tell them that you hadn't accounted for those extra people, both in terms of space and $$.
as far as the RD and the BP - whoever cares about you two and WANTS to be there, WILL be there. and those who 'can't make it' - well, who needs them anyway?
the bottom line is that when your day is done, you will be MARRIED to the love of your life!!!!
DebMaher
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Alternately, just agree to hate everyone permanently.
LuvMyMichael
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You're day is coming....and then you will say it was all worth it (hopefully)
LuvMyMichael
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but I agree....this is tough!
jensun
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You can't imagine the amount of times that I thought about eloping and I still have 8 wonderful months of planning yeah!!!
nov.bride
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I am with you, I quit smoking a year ago and have been puffing away lately.
