Fh and i have been arguing over such stupid things lately!!! we have gone to bed without speaking the past two nights and this morning we didnt even speak. Im so miserable!!
SFP0214
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Umm I hear you... we faught last night and this morning...... The holidays are a stressful time. IT WILL PASS!
kissy27
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Keep your head up! It is a stressful time of the year for everyone! FH & I had been fighting too but we sat down & had a talk this past weekend! We are both driving ourselves crazy with the holidays, work, house-hunting & planning the wedding...Sometimes we both let all the pressure get the best of us! Just take some time to relax with FH & realize it is not bad that you are fighting, it is just all the pressure & stress!
nenna023
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Thanks ladies, it just stinks that we are both at work all day and we wont talk to eachother! At least i have wedding talk to keep me sane
kissy27
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It is very hard to go to work knowing that you aren't talking...that seems to be the time that you think of it the most! Just try to keep your head up!
nferrandi
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Why don't you drop him a nice email. Just remind him that you love him, and let him know you're tired of arguing and that you want to enjoy he holidays together. I'm sure that will smooth things over. I bet he feels the same way, but he's too much of a guy to make the first move.
FTRBRIDE
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cantwait2bewed
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I have had hard times with my FH too. We would argue for like 1 month straight and not talk to each other. Trust me it passes. Just let him have his time to himself. A relationship isnt' normal if there aren't any arguments. Send him flowers or give him a massage when you get home, maybe bake him a little cake. I know how you feel b/c i have these problems sometime too. But just realize that you love each other and things will work out.
