So upset!

If having her in your wedding means that much to you, maybe you should reach out to your cousin and work on mending your relationship. Besides, life's too short to cut people out of it.

Sorry you and your friend are not talking?? If you dont mind me asking, what is the reason for the falling out??

Maybe you could try and talk to her about it?? I am sure if you guys were really good friend at one time, you both wont let a little arugment get in the way of your friendship.

Hang in there!! IF you really want her in the wedding, talk it out with out. If she refuses to budge and wont talk to you, even for the sake of her kids, then you might have to think twice about your frienship with her.

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Posted by AMGBride2008


If having her in your wedding means that much to you, maybe you should reach out to your cousin and work on mending your relationship. Besides, life's too short to cut people out of it.

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I will not talk to her. I have done everything for her. and so have my parents and my grandparents. And never was there a tank you or anything. And this past year she was a total ***** to everyone..including my gradfather. a few years ago...her hisband cursed out my mother and called her a few nasty things...for no reason at all. And she and him refused to apologize. so my mother never talked to him. But we talked to her for the kids. But when she asked me to be god mother for her child i thought things would change. I helped her with her daughtes christing...i went up the night before to help her set up and i was at her house at like 8 in the morning to help her with the kids and get everything ready.I used to go over 1 hr to CT to pick her and her kids up almost everyweekend to bring them down here. Never a thank you or any gas money or anything. nothing. So when our e-party came she was supposed to be at my house at 11:30. He oldest daughter was already there cause she was spending the summer with us...again. And she never showed up. Then my mom gets a call from her that her dress got ruined and she won't make it to our house but will be at the RH on time....so 2 hrs pass and she is not there...finally she shows very late...and then her and her husabdn sit outside the entire time...while her kids run free in the RH!!! How embaressing...she is supposed to be in my BM and does this to me..then she decides to leave early....without even saying good bye!!!! I was very hurt...and i didn't say anything. so the next time i saw her was at my house cause my mom scheduled a sit down to discuss everythign with her and her husband...and he refused to apologize to my mom about what happened and he even said it was her fault and she started...we were all there. and then she started in with my mom too...so i got pissed and told her that she only expects people to do things for her and she can't help anyone else out or even say thank you. and she wouldn't listen. All she wants is money. Like now she is not talking to my grandfather cause for her b-day all her snet was a card..no money.. How fked up is that.

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Hey. I think you're pretty much answered your question that you were asking. She doesnt deserve to be your friend anymore because she doesnt seem appreciative of anything you and your family do for her. It's not worth the headache and as much as you love her kids, she wont let you see her kids espically when she is not talking to you.

Maybe just give her her space, and hopefully one day she will come around and apoligize to you and your family.

i am so sorry! is there any way you can call your cousin adn talk to her about it? famlies ifhgt all the time! maybe if you call her up you guys can work it out!

i am so sorry i hope it works out for you