I am so upset. My FH just came home to tell me that we are being relocated AGAIN to upstate NY in a town called Malta.
It has been hard enough to get adjusted to moving and planning a wedding at the same time and now I find out we are moving again to an even more po-dunk town that is even further away from all of my friends, family and everything I know.
Isn't marriage supposed to be about compromise? If so, Why am I the only one making sacrifices to make this work?
mds110286
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That must be so hard on you. FH must really appreciate your support and dedication. What does he do for a living?
LindsaylovesJustin
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That must be so hard on you. FH must really appreciate your support and dedication. What does he do for a living?
He is an electrical engineer and computer programmer
Jill52787
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We will be here no matter where you go!
oct13bride
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I am so sorry for you it's alot to deal with at once
barbeik005
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Aww Lindsay, sorry to hear that
LindsaylovesJustin
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Aww Lindsay, sorry to hear that
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He relocates in June of 2012 so we still have some time. I am just really ready to settle and make a home - you know?
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sorry to hear that hopefully you will be just as happy there ~ you always have the boards to talk to
soon2bmrsammo
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I'm sorry. That's definitely really hard. We are here if you need to talk
lindseynaggle
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That sucks, I'm sorry. We are all here for you!
SEB102707
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I feel you.
I have moved twice due to FH's job, and we will be moving again in April... 6 month before the wedding. If you ever need to vent you can FM me. I TOTALLY understand about the sacrifices.
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Aww Lindsay, sorry to hear that
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He relocates in June of 2012 so we still have some time. I am just really ready to settle and make a home - you know?
Well it's the ongoing joke IBM=I've been moved. Still sucks though. Lets make the best of how long you have left here!!!
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We will be here no matter where you go!
ditto!!!!!! try to keep your head up and stay positive!!!
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Posted by LindsaylovesJustin
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Aww Lindsay, sorry to hear that
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He relocates in June of 2012 so we still have some time. I am just really ready to settle and make a home - you know?
Well it's the ongoing joke IBM=I've been moved. Still sucks though. Lets make the best of how long you have left here!!!
Yes! I am really excited for Tuesday!
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Thanks for your kind words everyone. I have moved almost every year since I was 13 years old and I am just ready to settle down.
I hope we can make a new board once we are all married (maybe ill have the FH make us one) so we can all keep in touch and keep the G2G's going!
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So sorry hun. Is this going to be an ongoing thing when you two get married?
LindsaylovesJustin
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I am hoping this will be the last time for a long time. We are really wanting to settle to try and start at family
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Maybe FH can search for a different job from now until next June? Does this mean that you have to change your job?
