In over the course of a weekend, my FH and I decided to change the WHOLE idea of our wedding! We are now keeping it low key, seriously under 30 people! We originally wanted to do a destination wedding, but my father has become so sick over the last 3 years and cannot fly. So FH and I decided as of last night we will be getting married in Montauk with our immediate family and 2 of our closest friends each. (immediate family includes parents, siblings and FH's grandma). I couldn't be happier as this is inspired by our original plan. We will then enjoy dinner with our families and be on our merry way, married in love <3 When we return from our honeymoon, we will get the Church's blessing to have a ceremony so our marriage is recogonized by the Church.
The change of plans were decided after a LONG talk about what WE wanted. Neither of us wanted anything big and elaborate. This was just what we had envisioned. So our wedding will be moved up into June Next year is going to be a GOOD year, graduating school and marrying my hunny <3
Now, all I need to do is make some calls, and find out pricing. I am thinking of surprising my FH to two days in Montauk to try this all out!
I am so happy!!!
Rivera2be
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Congratulations on your decision and your plans sound great! I love intimate weddings. We originally wanted destination too but then figured it was going to cost almost the same...LOL
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Yes, destination weddings are about the same amount of money. And it's also a lot to ask from your guests. This is just a much better plan for us. Now I am super excited!!
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That is so exciting!!! Good for you, that sounds so romantic and charming!!
Don't get me wrong, I am falling in love with my big wedding, but I am a little jealous you are going to get married in montauk! It's my dream!!! haha
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Posted by wishingwell1230
That is so exciting!!! Good for you, that sounds so romantic and charming!!
Don't get me wrong, I am falling in love with my big wedding, but I am a little jealous you are going to get married in montauk! It's my dream!!! haha
Thank you!!! You are so funny!! My first choice of halls to be married in was Landsend, so honey we can trade at anytime =))
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Thats great!
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That's so exciting! I'm glad you and your FH will have your dream wedding!
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Posted by BklynBabe1624
In over the course of a weekend, my FH and I decided to change the WHOLE idea of our wedding! We are now keeping it low key, seriously under 30 people! We originally wanted to do a destination wedding, but my father has become so sick over the last 3 years and cannot fly. So FH and I decided as of last night we will be getting married in Montauk with our immediate family and 2 of our closest friends each. (immediate family includes parents, siblings and FH's grandma). I couldn't be happier as this is inspired by our original plan. We will then enjoy dinner with our families and be on our merry way, married in love <3 When we return from our honeymoon, we will get the Church's blessing to have a ceremony so our marriage is recogonized by the Church.
The change of plans were decided after a LONG talk about what WE wanted. Neither of us wanted anything big and elaborate. This was just what we had envisioned. So our wedding will be moved up into June Next year is going to be a GOOD year, graduating school and marrying my hunny <3
Now, all I need to do is make some calls, and find out pricing. I am thinking of surprising my FH to two days in Montauk to try this all out!
I am so happy!!!
I kinda want to do the same thing. Congrats on making your dream a reality!!!!!
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that sounds sooo nice!! Im sure it will be beautiful
BklynBabe1624
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thanks girls!!! I appreciate it all =)) I cant wait for all of us to say 'I do'!!
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Congrats on doing what you and your FH want and not what everyone else wants!
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SO exciting! It's so awesome that you're doing it the way you want it!
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Congrats on the decison.
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Congrats, Montauk is beautiful.
BklynBabe1624
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Yes, this is so important to us to do it our way. I really am happy to do this, and it is truly everything we want. I have never been to Montauk so I want to take a ride out there this summer to see it all =))) *thank you ladies for all the support*
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Congrats!!!!
sounds wonderful
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Posted by wishingwell1230
That is so exciting!!! Good for you, that sounds so romantic and charming!!
Don't get me wrong, I am falling in love with my big wedding, but I am a little jealous you are going to get married in montauk! It's my dream!!! haha
Thank you!!! You are so funny!! My first choice of halls to be married in was Landsend, so honey we can trade at anytime =))
OMG too funny!!! You are going to have a beautiful wedding in Montauk, you'll have to tell us all about your trip when ou go to check it out!
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Glad that you and your FH are on the same page and have planned something that you both wanted....you will have a fantastice memorable wedding celebration!
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congrats on a new wedding!!
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sounds beautiful and intimate. Congrats on your decision. It will be a beautiful wedding i'm sure. And exactly what you and your FH want.