So Why get married..convo w/ a 12 year old

I went to lunch w/ my mom and 12 yr old brother and he says 'so, Christine, what's gonna happen when you are married? What are you gonna do?'

So I ask what he means

He says 'like whats different, you already live together'

I say, nothing will change, we will just be married

He goes- SO WHY GET MARRIED??

LOL kids are too funny....but its true...nothing will change. It's gonna be so weird.

Anyone who lived w/ their FH feel the same way..like nothing will change?

(not the why get married part)

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Posted by SugaBeans

awww they are so innocent!

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but they KNOW things...lol

He is always coming up with these unexpected things and he's right sometimes..lol

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Posted by failurebydsign

i felt that way..but it ds change..we were apart for a little bit before we got maried..but things really do change..like my friggin name..

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oh yeah- you are mrs potato chip now, right- haha

im not looking forward to my new last name..it rhymes w/ my first

that's soo cute!! you could go into the things like benefits, life meaning decisions, or you could just say, i really want to wear two rings, not just one . i heard that from my nieces, day of, and i had not idea what to say, until they admired my rings, so now that's my answer

hahah your brother us super cute!! I love how they see things how they are!!!


one of my students think sthat because im getting married i have a baby in my belly i dont feel like tackling that one with a 6 yr old

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

I went to lunch w/ my mom and 12 yr old brother and he says 'so, Christine, what's gonna happen when you are married? What are you gonna do?'

So I ask what he means

He says 'like whats different, you already live together'

I say, nothing will change, we will just be married

He goes- SO WHY GET MARRIED??

LOL kids are too funny....but its true...nothing will change. It's gonna be so weird.

Anyone who lived w/ their FH feel the same way..like nothing will change?

(not the why get married part)

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i feel the same way - ive been living with FH for the last 3 years (as of now we've been engaged for 7 months) and i dont really feel like much will change after the wedding besides hi being my husband and having his last name - ii already feel so comitted to him and we have been living our life together already for the last 3 years so i think our transition into marriage will be a smooth one - no surprises

We live together and I am DEFINATELY worried that I'm going to be upset after all is said and done with the wedding because it will just be back to regular life!

Girls that dont live with their FH have that big change to look forward to- but we'll be back from teh HM and then what? We dont want kids (I dont want them ever, he doesnt want them for a while) so that wont happen... I hope to just enjoy married life and start planning vacations for the next year when we dont have to stress about wedding planning!!!

Kids are too cute-- he has a point!

this is one thing i'm glad i didn't do...is live with him..thats the part im looking foward to most!!