So you gave your BMs a deadline for when to order their dresses

Mici n KC Posted: Mar 28, 2008 12:42 PM

So you gave your BMs a deadline for when to order their dresses

Are you guilty of harassing them before the deadline to order the dress?

madseason Posted: Mar 28, 2008 12:45 PM

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no i didnt - its not your fault if they drag your feet - i had a girl be honest with me about $ and i was happy she said that - and funny thing she had her $ in first - paid it off and everything in one shot!

You shouldnt feel bad tho. my girls thankfully got them in pretty quickly and now that thebals are due - they are surprising me. But i have 3 married girls who have been thru this and one is engaged and one will be engaged - so my guess is they might be sympathetic

yelley77 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 12:47 PM

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i gave my BM's a time frame in which I would like for them to be ordered by and I didn't really have any problems... i know this may sound rude, but i told everyone, 'i'd like you to order them by this time so that gives you 2 months to fix problems, etc.... you can order it when you want, but if it isn't in for the wedding, i don't know what to tell you'

I didn't say it mean, but it wasn't soemthing that I could allow myself to get upset about.

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Mar 28, 2008 01:08 PM

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you can lead a horse to water but you cant make him drink...

my friend said this is when we are meeting.. have it ordered .. if u dont get it then thats on u

cherish83 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 01:12 PM

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I'm sending out an email or text message this weekend to tell me dates when they are available. Only 2 BMs came with me to decide on the dress. The rest have no idea what it looks like. Im kinda iffy about a couple of them now with drama going on, so I'm taking this to see where they stand. I wouldnt feel guilty.

MayWeddingGrl Posted: Mar 28, 2008 01:13 PM

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nope, I left it up to my MOH to harrass them and to be on top of things for the dresses

Mici n KC Posted: Mar 28, 2008 01:19 PM

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Posted by MayWeddingGrl

nope, I left it up to my MOH to harrass them and to be on top of things for the dresses

I know someone that is in a wedding in November and the bride said she wants the BMs to have their orders in by April 1. This poor girl has been harassed the entire month of March asking if she ordered the dress. Why give a date if you're going to do that?

GinaBambina08 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 01:45 PM

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I gave them 2 deadlines and most of them missed the first, but I hstill got their money...one bm has yet to give me the money...and i'm about to just go ahead without her I already have a backup just in case

Espo22 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 02:46 PM

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no they harassed me they kept asking me when the hell i was going to go for bm dresses lol luckily it all worked out and went in january, my MOH actually just received hers yesterday and they had told her march 27 delivery date. The rest of the bm dresses since theyre a bit different they said april 7th so soon they'll be here too with plenty of time to alter them

kimnsteve Posted: Mar 28, 2008 02:49 PM

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i had to with two of them and i didnt feel bad ...the rest were great about it

kimnsteve Posted: Mar 28, 2008 02:51 PM

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Mici n KC Posted: Mar 28, 2008 02:53 PM

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Posted by Espo22

no they harassed me they kept asking me when the hell i was going to go for bm dresses lol luckily it all worked out and went in january, my MOH actually just received hers yesterday and they had told her march 27 delivery date. The rest of the bm dresses since theyre a bit different they said april 7th so soon they'll be here too with plenty of time to alter them

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Mar 28, 2008 02:54 PM

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No. They were all awesome. I gave them a frigging week and a half to get measured and order. They all went. No pressure needed from me... They're swell.

MrsInglima Posted: Mar 28, 2008 02:56 PM

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i'm about the put in the info for my dresses. i think everyone except one will be really quick about placing the order, and i will definitely be harassing her, even if i have to go through her mother.