Socks.

FH better find himself some socks for his cold feet realllllllly fast because I've just about had it walking on eggshells all week not knowing where him and I stand with this damn wedding. My sadness has turned to anger today. I've been really nice with him while he tries to figure things out, but seriously...his reasons for having wedding 'concerns' are the MOST RIDICULOUSSS reasons I have ever heard and I want to smack him.

And worse...everyone and their mother keeps talking to me about the wedding...I haven't told anyone it may not be happening. I want to throw up.

Vent over

Definitely don't tell anyone it might not be happening, because it really probably just is cold feet. You guys talked about his fears and it didn't help at all? What's his reasoning behind it? I never understand when guys do this!

stay strong! im sorry you are dealing with this. its just not cool.....but hopefully it will bring you guys closer togeteher.

have you thought of talking to someone together to figure it out?

Is he at least talking it over with you or just trying to figure it out on his own? I definitely see how you can be getting angry with this!!!

Oh Kristen!!!!!

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Posted by jilliibabii

Definitely don't tell anyone it might not be happening, because it really probably just is cold feet. You guys talked about his fears and it didn't help at all? What's his reasoning behind it? I never understand when guys do this!

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ita... he sounds like he's just going through some stuff but im sure he will shake it off

im sorry you have to go through this now! fortunately you still have some time before the wedding so that this will all work out!

sorry Kristen
I wouldnt tell anyone as well. 1st u and him need to figure what this is all about.
what are his reasons? seems a bit out of no where this happened

Aw, sweetie. Stay strong.

I'm so sorry

But I definitely think you're doing the right thing by not telling anyone about it. WHEN (not if!) he gets over his cold feet, you don't want others to judge him/you/your relationship for it.

aw! hang in there, it will blow over

awww chicky
is it a possibility to t alk to him again to see where you stand or do you think it will cause a blow out?

hope everything works out for the best.

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Posted by CloudNine

awww chicky
is it a possibility to t alk to him again to see where you stand or do you think it will cause a blow out?

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we have had a few convos about it. its basically just something within himself he needs to sort out

please stay strong.
for your happy ending

im sorry hunnie, try not to get angry i know much easier said than done, but you dont want to push him in either direction, he needs to decide.... spend this weekend in, and try to find the root of his concerns, i hope everything works out

im so sorry to hear that. i wouldnt say anything to anyone either.
have you considered going to a third party to work it out? your priest/pastor who is marrying you or a couples therapist? i know guys usually hate that stuff but it really could help.