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Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related
BriBri529 Posted: Feb 24, 2005 08:35 PM+
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Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

My cousin and BM just found out she is pregnant. She will be 7 months preggo at my wedding. She generally does not have the greatest pregnancies and is always sick for nearly 100% of her pregnancies. She is a big girl to begin with and with the pregnancy on top of it, she gets anxiety attacks, can't breath and gets very dizzy- especially in summer months. She is still going to be my bridesmaid in my heart and in every sense of the word except she will not be in a dress walking down the aisle. I am so sad, but this is really what is best for her health. She will still be at my wedding, just having to wear a gown, walk down the aisle, ride in a limo and deal with the craziness of pictures in the heat is just going to be too much for her.

But the good news is that I am going to be the godmother! She asked me tonight! I am so excited! I can't believe I am going to be a GODMOTHER!!!!!


I am so sad and happy at the same time!!!!

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mrswask Posted: Feb 24, 2005 08:36 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

what about having her do a reading?
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Shorty McBride Posted: Feb 24, 2005 08:37 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

you made a good decision- and congrats godmother!!!!
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RedHead Posted: Feb 24, 2005 08:40 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related


Posted by mrswask

what about having her do a reading?


excellent suggestion

CONGRATS BRI .....and i sorry
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BriBri529 Posted: Feb 24, 2005 08:45 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

She HATES public speaking! She had to give a speech at her godson's christening (her bro's baby) and she nearly hyperventilated! And she wasn't pregnant at the time either! She suffers from bad anxiety (it runs in our family)

But it was a great suggestion
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Happybride2005 Posted: Feb 24, 2005 08:46 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

how nice. hope everything works out with your cousin.
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Danielle Posted: Feb 24, 2005 08:46 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

Congrats GODMOTHER!!!

Sorry she can't do the whole bridesmaid thing... but a GODMOTHER, that is SO special
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BriBri529 Posted: Feb 24, 2005 08:46 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

and thanks girls!
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FeliciaDA Posted: Feb 24, 2005 08:47 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

Aww that is so bittersweet, but a baby is a wonderful thing and its so wonderful to hear you will be a godmama

Your wedding day is still going to be perfection with your cousin in attendance, no matter if she is'officially' a BM or not
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TracyInQueens Posted: Feb 24, 2005 09:11 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

Congrats!
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hbradio Posted: Feb 24, 2005 09:18 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

Awwww thats so sweet. Maybe you can dedicate a song to her at the reception?
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don424 Posted: Feb 24, 2005 09:28 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

Bri -- are you having a Catholic mass? If so, you could have her bring up the gifts
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1017Bride Posted: Feb 24, 2005 09:59 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

I'm sorry that she won't be able to be your BM but congrats to her! And being a godmother is great! Yay!
The reading idea sounds cool if she is up for it.
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june262004 Posted: Feb 24, 2005 11:27 PM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related


Posted by don424

Bri -- are you having a Catholic mass? If so, you could have her bring up the gifts



I was thinking the same thing!
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Moehick Posted: Feb 25, 2005 07:05 AM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related


Posted by june262004


Posted by don424

Bri -- are you having a Catholic mass? If so, you could have her bring up the gifts



I was thinking the same thing!



That sounds like a good idea....Congrats Godmother!
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BriBri529 Posted: Feb 25, 2005 07:10 AM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related


Posted by june262004


Posted by don424

Bri -- are you having a Catholic mass? If so, you could have her bring up the gifts



I was thinking the same thing!



Don, that is a really good idea. We are in the process of finding out if we can have the mass. Because it is a Sunday we can only have a ceremony, but because the priest marrying us is a friend from another parish they are allowing him to do a mass as long as he is up for it. Basically we are waiting to meet with our priest and work out the details.
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Valentinegirl Posted: Feb 25, 2005 07:21 AM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

Congrats godmomma!
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BriBri529 Posted: Feb 25, 2005 07:45 AM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

Thank You!
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don424 Posted: Feb 25, 2005 09:02 AM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related


Posted by BriBri529


Posted by june262004


Posted by don424

Bri -- are you having a Catholic mass? If so, you could have her bring up the gifts



I was thinking the same thing!



Don, that is a really good idea. We are in the process of finding out if we can have the mass. Because it is a Sunday we can only have a ceremony, but because the priest marrying us is a friend from another parish they are allowing him to do a mass as long as he is up for it. Basically we are waiting to meet with our priest and work out the details.



yes, we did this at our wedding -- i'm not sure about the sunday thing but hopefully since it is a friend, you can have the mass. We picked family to bring up the gifts for us
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oneday Posted: Feb 25, 2005 10:12 AM+
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Re: Some Bittersweet news- I am a little sad and also VERY excited! Not SO wedding related

Aw, I'm sorry Bri that she can't still be a bridesmaid, but that is awesome that you are going to be a godmother. Congrats!!!!
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