how I'm having problems with my MOH. I have been trying to get her to go get measured for awhile now. I 've been calling her for the past 2 weeks now without her answering nor returning my call. I was being nosey and logged on to my Facebook account which I haven't been on in forever, and see shes been online And I wrote this on her 'wall'.. Please tell me if this was wrong or if I came off sounding like a beotch.
' Ummm why is it that I have been calling you for 2 weeks now and you have not answered nor returned any of my calls? I see that you are sick and sorry to hear that but you could let me know that your still alive. You know you should of have been measured by now and pretty much everyone but you has been. By you not answering me is making me think you don't want to be involved'
gina409
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well mrs botw....
i think u said it perfect..not too nice not too tough..look u gave her so many chances..sometimes u have to be a tiny bit tough..u were def not a biotch...if she is having money probs or whatever at least tell u,KWIM?
MrsGarcia
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I doubt money is a issue.. Trust me... they just got a shiney BMW a few months ago!!! I'm just angry and stressed which is causing me to eat white chocolate lollipops and I'm going to induldge myself in a sundae when my job breaks out the goodness.. Oh how I'm going to be 700 lbs because of her.
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I think it sounds OK for the situation, but I might not have posted that on a public forum like that ... I know for myself if it were me, I'd feel really embarrassed and upset ... but that is just me, and I am very sensitive! So who knows ...
But I think your tone with her is definitely justified ...
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Posted by julesrbf
I think it sounds OK for the situation, but I might not have posted that on a public forum like that ... I know for myself if it were me, I'd feel really embarrassed and upset ... but that is just me, and I am very sensitive! So who knows ...
But I think your tone with her is definitely justified ...
That was my only means of communication... She has not read her emails... She hasn't been on Myspace for me to private message her and she never answers the phone. So i didn't know what else to do
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Posted by julesrbf
I think it sounds OK for the situation, but I might not have posted that on a public forum like that ... I know for myself if it were me, I'd feel really embarrassed and upset ... but that is just me, and I am very sensitive! So who knows ...
But I think your tone with her is definitely justified ...
That was my only means of communication... She has not read her emails... She hasn't been on Myspace for me to private message her and she never answers the phone. So i didn't know what else to do
I see your point ... maybe you could send it as a Facebook message instead of a wall posting?
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Posted by julesrbf
I think it sounds OK for the situation, but I might not have posted that on a public forum like that ... I know for myself if it were me, I'd feel really embarrassed and upset ... but that is just me, and I am very sensitive! So who knows ...
But I think your tone with her is definitely justified ...
That was my only means of communication... She has not read her emails... She hasn't been on Myspace for me to private message her and she never answers the phone. So i didn't know what else to do
I see your point ... maybe you could send it as a Facebook message instead of a wall posting?
I didn't even know you could do that... I joined that site just to play scrabble at work with a co-worker LOL.. Oops you can see how FaceBook savy I am.
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Posted by julesrbf
Posted by MrsGarcia
Posted by julesrbf
I think it sounds OK for the situation, but I might not have posted that on a public forum like that ... I know for myself if it were me, I'd feel really embarrassed and upset ... but that is just me, and I am very sensitive! So who knows ...
But I think your tone with her is definitely justified ...
That was my only means of communication... She has not read her emails... She hasn't been on Myspace for me to private message her and she never answers the phone. So i didn't know what else to do
I see your point ... maybe you could send it as a Facebook message instead of a wall posting?
I didn't even know you could do that... I joined that site just to play scrabble at work with a co-worker LOL.. Oops you can see how FaceBook savy I am.
whoops! Maybe next time ... but hopefully there won't BE a next time! Keep us posted!!!
DesiBaby
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Look lady lol I personally have had so much trouble with my bp it comes a point just be frank sh*t or get off the poit
im with u
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I would've done the same it's not cool that she is ducking you like that. Say to her look biatch i am BOTW you listen to me now!!! Sounds crazy bridezillish but wt f . I need to laugh i had a lousy day.
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I admire your directness for sure!! I def think she deserved it although I may have opted for an inbox message.. i think she had it coming
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THERES nothing wrong with you said, i wouldve done it just maybe message instead of posting on her wall or leave a vm but thats bc i hate how involved everyone gets in others lives on myspace and facebook, finally got annoyed and stopped with those lol. Hopefully she gets back to you now.
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SOOOOOO Face Book worked LOL.. She called and was saying how so much has been going on and shes so sorry. That she will be going tomorrow to get measured. We'll see what happens.. If not shes demoted!
Thanks ladies
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SOOOOOO Face Book worked LOL.. She called and was saying how so much has been going on and shes so sorry. That she will be going tomorrow to get measured. We'll see what happens.. If not shes demoted!
Thanks ladies
oh yay!!!!!!!! glad to see it worked out..keep us posted
julesrbf
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Thanks for the update! Let us know if she actually goes today. I am glad you finally spoke with her though
MrsGRod09
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Yay!!! Glad that worked
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Posted by MrsGarcia
how I'm having problems with my MOH. I have been trying to get her to go get measured for awhile now. I 've been calling her for the past 2 weeks now without her answering nor returning my call. I was being nosey and logged on to my Facebook account which I haven't been on in forever, and see shes been online And I wrote this on her 'wall'.. Please tell me if this was wrong or if I came off sounding like a beotch.
' Ummm why is it that I have been calling you for 2 weeks now and you have not answered nor returned any of my calls? I see that you are sick and sorry to hear that but you could let me know that your still alive. You know you should of have been measured by now and pretty much everyone but you has been. By you not answering me is making me think you don't want to be involved' [/QUOTE
