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Some people must be circling PLUTO!!!!!

jennaandguy09 Posted:

Some people must be circling PLUTO!!!!!

My Response Date is May 5th....we're still waiting on responses, my rogue BM who I'm still not speaking to has yet to respond...along with a handful of our nearest and dearest who MUST think I'll just check my crystal ball to see whether or not they're coming......WHAT IS SO DIFFICULT ABOUT WRITING YOUR NAME AND CHECKING OFF WHETHER OR NOT YOU'RE COMING, THE ENVELOPE IS STAMPED AND THE ADDRESS IS ON THERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ....rant over.....
Sweeteey51 Posted:

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i know they probably waiting until this weekend. that *****.

IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Ugh I am NOT looking forward to my RSVP date! I dont understand what is so complicated about putting a piece of paper in an envelope and giving it to the mailman??
Celeste617 Posted:

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UGH it's so annoying!!! My RSVP date is in three days and I'm still waiting on a few. I got a bunch of verbal RSVPs I put stamps on the envelopes for a reason people!!
You'll probably get a bunch this week Otherwise, don't be shy and make those phonecalls!!
jennaandguy09 Posted:

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I say the same things, I didn't put the stamp on there for my health, just send the darn thing back already, I mean how hard can this POSSIBLY be??? I get an invite, I open it, fill out the response and send it back....not hard, I just expect the same courtesy.....apparently I expect too much!!!!!
MrsBtobe2009 Posted:

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I TOTALLY agree!!!! I know my RSVP date is not for another month, but my close relatives and bridal party cant RSVP right away. ***. It isnt like they have to buy a stamp. My brother and SIL(MOH) still havent RSVPed so i called them today and yelled at them. It is beyond annoying and I cant stand it!!!

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted:

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Sorry you're going through this. I am so guilty though of waiting till the last minute to send out RSVPs. Hope they arrive soon

Aliaxtra Posted:

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Just Breathe..

We all go thru the same vent..
I'm getting married this weekend- Called Leonards yest w/ my final count..

AS SOON as i hung up the phone-
My aunt calls that she cant make it..

My brother calls and says my father and his wife will make it.. (long story there)

I walked into work- cked my email..
my cousin is asking me to call her cause she needs to change the count..LMAO



You have to
I dont have time to

So breathe
littlepixie12 Posted:

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oh that really does stink.. procrastinators!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WishfulRinne Posted:

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Posted by Aliaxtra

Just Breathe..

We all go thru the same vent..
I'm getting married this weekend- Called Leonards yest w/ my final count..

AS SOON as i hung up the phone-
My aunt calls that she cant make it..

My brother calls and says my father and his wife will make it.. (long story there)

I walked into work- cked my email..
my cousin is asking me to call her cause she needs to change the count..LMAO



You have to
I dont have time to


OMGosh!!! I am so not looking forward to this!!
Congrats on you getting married this week!

So breathe

Juhgail Posted:

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Im not looking forward to this in September!

valthom426 Posted:

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The response thing is definitely an issue. Unless you go through it you don't understand the stress and expense related to it. Don't do what I did, don't wait to call them. Although I knew my husbands stepmother was coming, I didn't get her reply card until two days before the wedding. Why bother then.

I had a dream during my time period of response cards, that anyone who didn't respond during the designated time went through an uninvited process - their stamp lost it's value, the invite disintegrated and they received an automatic uninvited card in their mailbox. Very Harry Potter, but it solved a few problems on my end. I considered it a wedding non-nightmare

Val
B2B 2009 Posted:

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Aww that stinks! I think everyones going to go through this.. I can personally admit to being guilty of this in the past just assuming close family and friends would know i was coming I'd send it back last minute.. I didn't realize it was a big deal until one of my close friends got married and told me how stressed she was that so many people waited till the last minute and some left her hanging on if they were bringing a guest?! Now with my own wedding coming up I really understand it!! Maybe try and give family and friends a hint if you speak to them! And as far as your BM goes that's plain rude!

edited for spelling
alli3131 Posted:

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I hear you on this one......My wedding is Saturday and I just received an response card today!!!!!

pa56 Posted:

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Most people are waiting to mail in their card ON the RSVP deadline date. I don't know why.

I sent an email to all non-responders 2 days after the deadline telling them (politely) that I wasn't able to change my headcount beyond this weekend, so I needed their response before then to be included.

It totally worked.
jennaandguy09 Posted:

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Posted by pa56

Most people are waiting to mail in their card ON the RSVP deadline date. I don't know why.

I sent an email to all non-responders 2 days after the deadline telling them (politely) that I wasn't able to change my headcount beyond this weekend, so I needed their response before then to be included.

It totally worked.



That's an AWESOME idea, I'm totally trying that!!!!!!!
mlcvln129 Posted:

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My boss told me the other day at an unrelated meeting, 'You know that my wife and I are coming, right?' I said, 'Yes, but you still need to send in the RSVP. I can't count you until you send in the card. ' 'You mean my wife didn't do that yet?'

But seriously, how hard is it to do? Don't tell me verbally--SEND ME THE CARD!!!
valthom426 Posted:

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It's true! If yo wanted a verbal response you would have called them, but you printed, addressed and stamped a card. Send it in folks!! I hope I never become one of them, slap me if I do.

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