Somedays I feel like........

HopelessRomantic Posted: Sep 12, 2010 05:46 PM

Somedays I feel like........

nic2011 Posted: Sep 12, 2010 05:49 PM

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you need to sit down and have an honest conversations with your man about this. you need to get on the same page NOW.

just make sure you are calm about it when you bring up the subject.

RFutureBegins2day Posted: Sep 12, 2010 05:50 PM

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I hear you. You are probably just very overwhelmed. Have a sit down with FH and work it out. I am feeling the same way right now. I should take my own advice.

FutureJOC Posted: Sep 12, 2010 05:55 PM

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I think you both just need to really sit down and work out some sort of saving plan for this wedding and see realistically what you can affgord to spend on the wedding and how long it will take to save that.

I get moments of anxiety when thinking about the budget and thinking 'Are we ok?' but then I sit down and really work it out and realize we are fine. You just need to get on the same page with each other.

HopelessRomantic Posted: Sep 12, 2010 06:08 PM

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thank you ladies! this is so stressful.. im going to talk to him and if we cant come to a conclusion than its off....

mybabylovesmoi Posted: Sep 12, 2010 06:13 PM

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I am constantly stressed about finances too. But I am naturally the worrier of the two of us and can't help but stress out even if in reality, we are okay!

I also am adamant about paying for the wedding with cash and FH is more lax about it saying that we can always use credit if we don't have enough and pay it off with the gifts and the thought drives me bananas.

I guess trying to let you know that I feel the same way sometimes but I know that our overall financial goals are in line with another.

It is very stressful and I can't wait for it to be over either