Someone Please Give me the Strength

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Jan 05, 2008 08:48 AM

Someone Please Give me the Strength

I am sick, nothing major but i went to the doctor yesterday.
I am in my FIL's house, and since 8am today have been awake, cause they go on the tredmill and blast the TV.
All i wanted to do is sleep late but i cant because of their loud TV.

I slammed my door super loud, and they lowered the TV a little. So i think they got the point, but its still loud.

I am also in a fight with FMIL because of what went down yesterday. I am not speaking to her, nor will i ever do her a favor ever again.

How am i going to cope and deal with this for 3-4 more months

MrsD71208 Posted: Jan 05, 2008 08:52 AM

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That's a tough one! I'd never be able to live with another family, even if they were going to be my IL's.......you've just been on your own for so long now and aren't used to adjusting to other people's schedueles. I know your sick, that makes it worse.....if you have strength, throw on sweats and go get a cup of Starbucks for a little.....take Stinky and get out for a few....maybe when you get home they'll be done or out by then.

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Jan 05, 2008 08:57 AM

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awww feel better!!!! and im sorry whats going on with the inlaws! what happened yesterday? just think, a few more months and you'll be out in your beautiful new home!

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Jan 05, 2008 08:58 AM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe

That's a tough one! I'd never be able to live with another family, even if they were going to be my IL's.......you've just been on your own for so long now and aren't used to adjusting to other people's schedueles. I know your sick, that makes it worse.....if you have strength, throw on sweats and go get a cup of Starbucks for a little.....take Stinky and get out for a few....maybe when you get home they'll be done or out by then.

awww thanks kristina
its soo hard, and yea ive pretty much lived on my own, since i moved out of NHP for 3 and a half years now.
I am just not used to be asked so many questions, of where im going, what im doing, not able to have people over as i like, actually having to ask permission...its like a foreign concept to me.

I am actually going at 12 today to go check out a place for a bridal shower in great neck. so i kinda wanted to sleep late cause the best thing to do when your sick is rest!

Thats another thing they never leave, they stay home all the time, they work from home so during the week they never go anywhere, and on the weekends they invent projects to do around the house...they cant sit still and just relax or go somewhere. They have no friends either, like they have friends but they never ever see them. i could go on and on about how weird they are. lol

I am sure my parents are just as weird, but i dont live with them, and i dont talk to them every day, more like a couple times a week.

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Jan 05, 2008 09:04 AM

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

awww feel better!!!! and im sorry whats going on with the inlaws! what happened yesterday? just think, a few more months and you'll be out in your beautiful new home!

Thanks, i know thats what i keep telling myself...just a few more months

Well yesterday i woke up sick, and call the doc, and they say come in now u will just have to wait, so i say ok. I call my FMIL downstairs and ask her if she can take me cause my car battery was dead and needed to be fixed, it was at the shop. She says ok...give me 10 minutes
Over an hour goes by and she finally goes upstairs and says I can drop you off, but can you find someone to pick you up....now the doctors is a 4 minute drive. literally we are in merrick road doc is on newbridge and merrick road
And i was sooooooooooooooo mad at that, she just makes up a shitload of excuses why she cant take me, she works for her husband...i was livid...Lee left work in massapequa, to drive me, wait for me, and bring me home. He is a great FH!
but fridays are his busiest day, and he cant leave the office. And she knew that. So basically she can go screw if she ever needs a favor done.

Smiley7092 Posted: Jan 05, 2008 09:57 AM

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Wow sorry about your inlaws. That is so strange that she didn't want to drive you to the doctor. I mean she can see that you are sick! That also ***** that they keep doing things around the house and are being loud about it. I understand you have to learn to live with them but they also have to learn to live with you and should try to keep it down, especially knowing that you are sick! That is tough. I could not live with my FIL's!!! I give you a LOT of credit!!!

AMGBride2008 Posted: Jan 05, 2008 10:01 AM

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Can you go hang at your parents house for the day? Feel better!

LnF0405 Posted: Jan 05, 2008 10:03 AM

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I was in a similar situation during the summer and 1 a month during the weekend (only 1 a month there where people in the house during the wekend) I used to check Hotwire find a hotel room for a discount price and FH and I stay there, he had to go to work on Sundays but I was able to sleep until late with know one bother me, believe me those 70 dollars (or sometimes less!) was the best money ever spent...

hannahshim Posted: Jan 05, 2008 10:49 AM

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*GIVES YOU STRENGTH*

did you get the strength??
>_<
feel better!!!

futuremrsfab Posted: Jan 05, 2008 11:09 AM

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ughhh feel better! i totally feel your pain on living with fh's parents- i had to move in with my grandmother after she broke her hip & the woman doesnt sleep & always wants to know where i am going & i am soo not used to that- dont worry in a couple months you'll be in your beautiful new house hang it there