So in Jan I asked my bridal party if they wanted in on a suite the night before since we are all getting makeup done early AM. So one Bm said I feel bad leaving my boyfriend in a room alone so I am going to get a room with him. Completely understandable. I said fine but you have to be at my room at 5am and she gave me issues about that but finally she caved. Fast forward to today and she asks me if hotels rooms are expensive. I was like you didnt book your room yet? and she was like no I thought you booked a bunch of rooms and that I did not tell her to book a room or give her info. So I reminded her about the discussion we had in January and that I gave the name of the hotel and what city its in back in Jan. Then she calls me to tell me the hotel is booked and has the nerve to ask me if her boyfriend can stay in the suite with my bridal party. Then I say she will have to book at room at a hotel nearby and her man will have to drive her to my hotel by 5am. Then shes like wait so I have to get up at like 430 and he has to drive me, you said 6am. I haven't said 6am ever. It has always been 5am. So now its not fair that her man has to drive her to my hotel at 5am. AM I wrong for being totally pissed and about to tell her to stay home. I have not asked for one thing form my bridal party. My bridal party is awesome except for this one person. If i say 5am do not play lets make a deal. Its 5am. UGH
leesah85
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ughhhh you're totally not wrong! people are soooo annoying
cmwals01
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the icing on the cake shes doesn't know where the wedding is. lolololol screw it let her keep her hair pink since I asked her not to since their dresses are wine. Let her show up late I've decided when all is said and done....so am I.
leesah85
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ughh i can totally relate
it's her loss if she misses out on hair makeup and pictures! just remember, this is your day. the people that want to be there will be there. other people just have issues
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You're not wrong, she's being selfish and difficult My MOH didn't want to pay for hotel since she lives in NYC and I didn't mind but I reminded her what time she HAD to be at the hotel for hair and makeup and she was there with no issues. It's not that difficult!
adelz
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I'm sorry - that's super annoying! :( I hope it all works out!
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That is so annoying. Im sorry. Some people are really selfish, i feel what your going through. I dont get why your best friends who are are in your bridal party have to make things difficult and cant just do what you ask of them even if it inconviences them for a day. thats what being a good friend is on your wedding day.
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i would honestly tell her to not bother showing up...shes a headache and it may be better if she wasnt in it
IMO
Chelechel1
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Ughgh I'd be annoyed too.
MrsKon1111
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ugg thats so annoying!
But like the others said i wouldnt let it ruin your day
VCanizalez
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Wow.... Im so sorry chic...
Talk to her again and LET her know she has to be there at 5:00 Just be aware she may be late...
I always told my BM 30 mins before Just in case....
and NO UR NOT WRONG... THEY SHOULD BE OK WIHT ANYTHING U TELL THEM
justnicethings
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yea, i'd tell her to do her hair and makeup on her own. if she's late, she's late, whatever! haha
cmwals01
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Yesterday I just let her have it and told her if she is not there by the latest 5:10 shes on her own. Screw it I can't even begin to get into her BS lol. Thanks guys for letting me know I wasn't being a bridezilla lol
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you are not wrong at all! ugh people are annoying
at this point i would just tell her if she prefers to get her makeup done elsewhere that you are ok with it, but she needs to be dressed and ready at your hotel room at xx time.
SoonToBeMrsCali
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You are not wrong, but don't let it ruin your day.
Moonmist09
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good for you for giving her a piece of your mind! what did she have to say about that?
Jmrosa1
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You are so right...don't let it ruin anything. One of my slacker BM showed up to the RD almost 2 hrs late, and on the day of she was supposed to be at my house at 7am..and didn't show up until 8 something. Mind you she lives 5 mins down the street.
I just let it be and by that point didn't even care nor let it ruin my day at all and if she showed up or not!
