Sometimes I just HATE

MY FH!!!!!

Since moving in together and planning this wedding, weve had to save every penny and do little else. It feels like all we do is bicker. I am so SICK of his BS. UGGGGGGGGGGhhhhhhhhhhhh

Why are guys such a$$H@le5??????

He plays a sport in a night league and goes and plays two nights a week. Anytime after 9:30. Tonight he didnt even have a game but got called to play on another team. OF course he didnt hesitate and jumped at the chance, leaving me again by myself. But our wed nights are like our weekends. He is a waiter and works all weekend. So we are both off on thurs and this is our only night to kick back. And where did he decide tospend his time. With his boys............. Of course. I am losing a battle that I dont even want to be fighting in. I dont know what to do and how to handle any of this...... I need advice.

Sorry for the vent...

I'm sorry that your feeling down....!! Call up your GF's and go get a drink!!! (it kinda stinks that your weekend is prob when your friends are working though

I would talk to him about it. But try not to be angry about it. Tell him that you don't mind that he does his own thing, but you just miss him. Your not asking for anything but his time, and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm sure he'll understand.

Ive learned from week one of pre-cana that my FH doesn't want to hang out with his friends because he thinks im going to chew him out and make him feel guilty so the best thing is to talk to him and tell him how you feel. So I explained to him how I felt and it wasn't my intention for it to come out that way and he understood. So speak with your FH when you are calm and not upset because it may come out the wrong way. I hope you feel better!!!

Thanks girls, its just an on-going thing. I guess it is best to talk when Im not upset. But it just makes me feel like I want to do it back to him. But the truth of the matter is he wouldnt care. Im just at the point of why should I care if i spend time with him when he obviously doesn't. And I know thats wrong too.

This is a lose lose situation for me...

sorry to hear that!!!
boys dont need the companionship like we do, maybe you could ask him to skip the extra games or maybe you could go watch???
or plan girl nights when he has games???

sorry to hear that!

talking to him is the best route...good luck!!