i dont know if its b/c i m single and i dont have that 'special someone' in my life..but i def. yearn for that right man and to have children..in time, i kno this will come..and i do have a great job, good friends and family, my own apartment, my health and an education..but i feel like something is missing, and i just cant put my finger on it..i dont need a man to b happy or to feel complete..but it does feel like something in my life is missing, does any1 else get into these moments of unfulfillment??
i hear ya jenny, sometime i feel like our life is mirroring each other..it makes me so sad that i too had a whole life planned that will never happen, it is scary to have such an uncertain future, i just hafta keep faith (even when i feel really strongly that i have no faith left) that there is a bigger and better plan out there for me, and u as well:)
someone once told me 'u gotta fake it, to make it' and sometime i feel like even tho i walk around with a fake happy smile then eventually it will always b real, who the heck knows, im trying to stay positive
Maribelle7777
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I did sometimes.
I used to volunteer. It really made me feel so much better about myself.
jenny2penny
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prncssrachel
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I don't know, I guess I just look at it this way...if we were to feel completely fulfilled, then we may never continue to grow. I think it's probably your inner voice just encouraging you to push forward with your life. Try new things, make new friends, etc. Look at it as a good thing and it may take you places you didn't think you'd end up.
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This is probably going to sound like overly simplistic, 'easier said than done' advice, but try not to think about life in terms of fulfillment... just go out there and LIVE it! When I was in my mid-20s, I spent a lot of time thinking about how all my friends seemed more fulfilled than me: better careers, better relationships, et cetera. Now when I think back on those years, I realize that even though I didn't have a steady boyfriend, and even though I hadn't yet found the right career track for me, I still had a LOT of fun and a lot of good friends! Sometimes those 'big picture' questions about life block out the things -- big and little -- that make life worth living.
RedHead
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I think you both should go out and make this the time of your lives...I too (at your age) went through a break-up but i went out and partied my butt of and i am sooooo glad for it!
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I won't say that I feel bad for you girls....because I don't. I wish for both of you...Michi and Jenny to find happiness and find 'the one'. OBVIOUSLY....your ex's weren't 'the one' so I am not sorry that broke up. I am sorry you are sad right now and confused and feel a void in some way. Be grateful and glad that you found out now.
You know how people always say 'If I knew then, what I know now....' You have the chance to finish that statement. SO GO OUT THERE AND DO IT GIRLS!!!
You are both....beautiful, young, sweet and strong. Go out there and let Mr. Right sweep you off your feet!!!
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I think you both should go out and make this the time of your lives...I too (at your age) went through a break-up but i went out and partied my butt of and i am sooooo glad for it!
