soon2bemrsalberti

i wrote this whole big thing out to you and ahhhh it got deleted

so now ill write it over...this doesnt start anything again so please ppl dont bring drama in here.

i know you didnt mean to hurt others feelings. I didnt try to attack you but more explain it from another side. Its hard when you dont deal with it personally or its not a part of your life to feel the way you do, its only normal.

The good thing is that the thread could've turned into a great thing because it helped others learn about what those who suffer from it deal with. I had read tilde's post and she spoke about a personal experience, which gives a better perspective. When people dont know about something they judge it and its only human nature, at one point or another in our lives we have all done the same thing so were all guilty of it. You didnt do anything that others havent done before. It gives everyone a better understand of something they might've not known about, and there is nothing wrong with learning something new everyday. Posts like that are always seen as negative bc yes they turn into drama but there is alot of good in what can come out of it. Like winterwed said, these people feel they have to hide what they deal with in fear of what others will think of them, but the more people who know the easier it can make it for many of them.

Sorry if you felt attacked, when it is such a sensitive subject then yes people will get emotional.

SO hope everybody took the good out of the thread.

Well said!

wow guess i missed something

I really don't want to fan the fire. I'd rather let it die down but I'll just say what i said to someone else.

I may be opinionated but I'm not a drama queen (or at least I don't meaningfully try to be one) I was suicidal for a verrrrrrrry long time...its not the same but in that sense who am i to down others. I just let out an opinion and I guess i just didn't word it well enough or censor it well enough. I have foot in mouth syndrome sometimes lol.

I don't want you girls to think I don't get what ur explaining...I totally do. do I still have some of my own opinions on the subject...absolutely.

If I EVER say something offensive...I apologize because it's not my nature to be hurtful. It's hard for me to see people posting in regards to me or something i said and stay quiet...I always feel the need to explain further...and sometimes its to my detrement (my mom always said i should be a lawyer)

---

Posted by angl2001

wow guess i missed something

---

me too

---

Posted by jennandrolo

---

Posted by angl2001

wow guess i missed something

---

me too

---

me too

---

Posted by Soon2beAlberti

I really don't want to fan the fire. I'd rather let it die down but I'll just say what i said to someone else.

I may be opinionated but I'm not a drama queen (or at least I don't meaningfully try to be one) I was suicidal for a verrrrrrrry long time...its not the same but in that sense who am i to down others. I just let out an opinion and I guess i just didn't word it well enough or censor it well enough. I have foot in mouth syndrome sometimes lol.

I don't want you girls to think I don't get what ur explaining...I totally do. do I still have some of my own opinions on the subject...absolutely.

If I EVER say something offensive...I apologize because it's not my nature to be hurtful. It's hard for me to see people posting in regards to me or something i said and stay quiet...I always feel the need to explain further...and sometimes its to my detrement (my mom always said i should be a lawyer)

---

I don't think you meant to be offensive to anyone at all this could've been handled in a calm way until some people jumped in and started name calling and that's what made it escalate...i'm really glad you both were able to voice your stances here...

---

Posted by Soon2beAlberti

I really don't want to fan the fire. I'd rather let it die down but I'll just say what i said to someone else.

I may be opinionated but I'm not a drama queen (or at least I don't meaningfully try to be one) I was suicidal for a verrrrrrrry long time...its not the same but in that sense who am i to down others. I just let out an opinion and I guess i just didn't word it well enough or censor it well enough. I have foot in mouth syndrome sometimes lol.

I don't want you girls to think I don't get what ur explaining...I totally do. do I still have some of my own opinions on the subject...absolutely.

If I EVER say something offensive...I apologize because it's not my nature to be hurtful. It's hard for me to see people posting in regards to me or something i said and stay quiet...I always feel the need to explain further...and sometimes its to my detrement (my mom always said i should be a lawyer)

---

OF COURSE you'll still have your own opinions, and how it should be. Like you i also am weird about meds but this is for myself and dont like them. Im one of the few people who are giving vicodin bc they HAVE to take it for pain and wouldnt even take it lol.

Like i said, i didnt think you were trying to be hurtful. Now i saw the show you are talking about, well just a few mins while i was flipping through the channels, and fh was with me. I showed him and he said he doesnt have it that bad, so yes not all of them deal with it like that, or for others its different things that trigger them. It is hard to understand things we dont go through personally. Ill be honest and at first i just didnt understand some things and wondered why it couldnt be turned off like a light switch and how he didnt realize patterns that will lead to go through a bad episode and prevent it. ITS understandable.

I think it was just the way things were worded that got people mad but im sure when you said it, you werent trying to hurt anyone, but im sure now you can understand how people did take offense and i saw your later posts speaking about that