SOoo confused and mad

so im a BM for a 'friend's'wedding in 3 1/2 weeks....my BF who is also a BM just called me spazzing out b/c she just found out our 'friend' got married in church today and didnt invite either of us!!!how do you not invite your 2 BM's but your other ones??we are pissed....this isnt the only problem we have had, the girl NEVER calls us anymore but calls the other BM's, my great grandmother passed away a month ago and she didnt call expressing her sympathies...she didnt let us try on our dresses to see what they looked like before we bought them, she said of 2 of the other BM's who felt a little heavy in the dresses she doesnt care they will just have to lose weight, she wants us to spend 200 on hair and makeup and we HAVE to use her person...i am so fed up im ready to drop out...like how dont u invite us??what do i do???

that's sooo weird!!! I don't get it either....If you feel strongly about not being in her BP just let her know how you feel, tell her the truth and confront her about not inviting you to the church! WHy should you be in it, this girl is not treating you like a BM or a friend!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty

You have to call her and confront her on this issue. This actually happened to a friend of mine (though the 'bride' didn't get married beforehand, very very odd by the way) Anyway, the engagement was 2 years and the bride was very aloof , not returning phone calls and such. To make a long story short, she kicked her out of the bridal party 3 months before the wedding, then invited her without a guest. ON TOP OF THAT, she did not invite me and my other friend who were invited to her in ENGAGEMENT PARTY!!! Point is, I have no idea what the hell people are thinking half the time. So often they are too insecure to face up to their responsibilities and instead end up cutting off relationships and acting like a b**ch. Hope all goes well!