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sooo i havent really been on much lately

Original post by Soon2bShea

my parents decided to get divorced...fabulous pre-wedding timing!! and the flood gates have apparently been opened for a ton of family members not wanting to associate with other family members at the wedding.

cant wait for this wedding to come already! ...before everything falls apart

christine2010 Posted:

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i'm so sorry. hang in there.
Diana12 Posted:

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I am sorry Try and focus on the positive things even though it's hard.
SoontobeGallagher Posted:

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I'm sorry, but I totally understand where you are coming from. FH's parents split up in October. It took a toll on our relationship too. I would have to say it made us stronger and showed us not what to do in our relationship.

amandamichael Posted:

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haha im dealing with that with my parents--theyve been divorced but still dont want to be around eachtother
just ignore it
really if you dont, youll drive yourself crazy
drivwal Posted:

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im sorry. just focus on you and fh, that will make you smile even though there are plenty of things going on around you that may make you frown.
tiffanykiss Posted:

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NYgirlinTX Posted:

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so sorry to hear about this it will all work out babe
flibbertigibbet Posted:

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aww... well, i hope its for the best and they can settle things amicably. hang in there, babes.... we'll be here for you through whatever you need!!
tmcnair414 Posted:

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I'm sorry
LovinMichael44 Posted:

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Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry to hear that this all has occurred right in time for your wedding......I'm sure it will all work out,...I know easier said than done, but try to hang in there
dfw343 Posted:

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so sorry.
It happens a lot in the beginning where families fight but by the time of your wedding, it should level out.

My Fh told me the first three months of his divorce there was a lot of fighting and now everyone gets along (inc me and the birth Mother of his kids; we never had a problem).

Also, it's not legal in NY to be divorced unless separated after a certain time FYI...unless it's REALLY BAD!
jmt1108 Posted:

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so sorry to hear that!! keep your head up, it will be over before you know it!
irisheyes23 Posted:

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I'm sorry for you.
Nina1010 Posted:

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so sorry...
Carolann Posted:

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I'm really sorry to hear about this . . . but it could be worse.
My dad just died this past November . . .

I'm really sorry for you, and just try to ignore all the drama. I'm sure it must be hard, but its your wedding, and if people can't just make nice for one night for you, then they are just being ridiculous <3
GR2010 Posted:

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UGH I am so sorry... this definitely isn't something you should NOT have to worry about right before your wedding....
GiannisWifey Posted:

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im really sorry!
Soon2bShea Posted:

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thanks again ladies, i appreciate the support!
marinai7 Posted:

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I'm sorry.
mstrango Posted:

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I'm sorry to hear that....hopefully they know that its your wedding day and that they must put aside their differences and act civil towards each other for that day. Mine are divorced too..I know how you feel

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