im soooo upset right now! and i guess i jinxed my self by saying yesterday how everything was taken care of and im not stressing and not nervous!!
well i already told you about the mess with the BM's hating the dress and wanting to change in the reception!
well FH decided to tell me a few mins ago that one of his friends called and said he is soo soo sorry, but doesnt know if he can make it! which screws up everything!!! seating charts! final head counts! we were already under out min to begin with and not it just keeps getting lower! my parents are paying and its just not fair to them that nobody gives a sh$t about us!
im soo over everyone right now! why am i even doing this? i feel like i should have eloped at this point...if its just about me and FH then thats really what we should have done! forget my dreams of a big wedding! nobody cares!
sorry...had to vent
kellylee418
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I am so sorry you are dealing with this! It seems inevitable to have this drama with a wedding. I think we have all had our share of it and its so frustrating. But forget about everyone and everything and remember you are marrying your best friend in the entire world. You won't even think about these things on your big day!!! Just breathe and let it roll over.
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awww, sweetie, I'm sooo sorry that things are getting messed up. Try not to let it bother you, I know, its easier said than done, but just think about how none of this will matter when you and FH are saying your vows and dancing your first dance. Your day will be perfect regardless of this stuff. It's all the stress, try to relax, have a glass of wine and don't think about it.
GT143EA
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Awwww sweetie! The same sh!t happened to me days before the wedding. Try not to let it get you down! The day of you wont even be thinking about the pr!cks who dropped out at the last minute. Just try to enjoy these last few days! They go by so quickly!!
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I definitely felt that way days before the wedding. Honestly I dont know why people have to start things or do things to make you so upset right before your big day. Its not like you do not have anything else to worry about.
Try to ignore the negative people as much as you can. I had to ignore a BM up until the day of the wedding bc every time I talked to her she had another complaint! Anything important she needed to know was sent via text or the message got to her through another BM.
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FutureMrsG
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I feel the same way today.
Mich2585
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hey ... people can be annoying but you know what ... in the end you are going to have an amazing day! dont let anyone take that away from you! right before my wedding i felt like everyone was driving me nuts with stupid little details ... dont let it get to you! enjoy your day no matter who can or can not be there and no matter who is happy or unhappy with a dress ... just have an AMAZING day and don't worry about anyone else!!!
Just Cindy
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You will have an amazing day no matter what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dont let things like this stress you out too much
cedesnyc
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I hear those things happen but don't let that stress you.it'll be ok
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im really trying not to stress but its soo hard! especially since im prob the most emotional person to begin with! Thanks girls! i swear i can count on you guys more than my friends and family!!!
if i could invite each and every one of you girls to my wedding i would! i know you guys would be there!!!
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So sorry you're going through this so close to your wedding day!
As far as the guy who can't come last minute, it's ok to have an empty chair at a table. Just leave the seating charts the way they are! I had two couples cancel two days before the wedding -- one whose sister died and another who got into a car accident on the way down from Vermont to come to our wedding. Those sorts of horrible tragedies are impossible to do anything about, and you really can't stress them, so their table ended up with 2 empty chairs at it (I called the hall and cancelled 2 of them, so it wasn't 4). But the people who had 6 people at their table certainly noticed... what can you do?
It was all fine for us, as it will be for you! Sorry you feel like no one else cares, but I'm so glad we can be here for you!
Try to stop worrying about everyone else, and let yourself enjoy your wedding! It's really difficult to do, I know, but it will be so worth it in the end!!!!
