sooo p1ssed at FH right now (edit w question!)

when we first starting thinking about a wedding, he insisted on wearing no tux, he wanted a white linen suit. which was fine, when we were talking about getting married on a BEACH...
but now we're not. and my girls are wearing floor length gowns. and i assumed (stupid me) that he was on board with getting a tux....apparently NOT as he informs me today.

MY DRESS IS IVORY. he can't wear a white linen suit! he got mad at me for assuming he would wear whatever i told him to, and now he says he'll figure out what he's wearing himself and keep it to himself.....he refuses to tell me what....like i'm supposed to tell the 2 groomsmen what to wear without know what hes doing....the best man is his son...will he be a 'surprise' too?



right now we are not even talking. i'm so frustrated, i hate it when he's difficult......he hasn't planned a thing with the wedding, just keeps boycotting things. then gets mad that i keep him 'out of the loop' he doesnt like to be 'told what to do'

right know i feel like telling him to shove the tux up his a ss....

sorry for the long vent. i'm PMSing on top of it all too!!!!!!!!!!

ETA:
thanks, ladies....he went right to bed after the fight so there's no talking to him now. i am hoping he will calm down and we will be able to discuss it later.

he really had a hard time with things he's 'supposed to ' do....if he doesn't wanna do them.

i wouldn't mind black suits, but how would that look??? his dad has a tux dinner jacket he will be wearing and my dad was planning on renting a tux....

has anyone seen suits instead of tuxes with floor length gowns?

Sorry you're going through this. If it makes you feel any better, FH and I had a vicious fight about the vest/tie he's wearing.

My FH want a top hat and tails. I told him NO and he told me that I am 'taking all the fun out of it'. Men are just dumb azzes!!

ohhhh boy......I don't even know what to say to that sorry that your dealing with this.

Oh god im having the same issues with my husband... hes telling me he wont tell me what he is wearing..etc he doesnt want my opinion!
that pissed me off too!

thanks, ladies....he went right to bed after the fight so there's no talking to him now. i am hoping he will calm down and we will be able to discuss it later.

he really had a hard time with things he's 'supposed to ' do....if he doesn't wanna do them.

i wouldn't mind black suits, but how would that look??? his dad has a tux dinner jacket he will be wearing and my dad was planning on renting a tux....

has anyone seen suits instead of tuxes with floor length gowns?

we had the EXACT same fight!!!! (he was pushing for khakis and blazers though... ) it was a doozy so i really symapthize with you


so our comprimise was suits- we had dark charcoal grey jcrew suits and they looked really nice- pics in album. my girls all wore floor length gowns and everything looked great.

good luck! im praying that he comes to his senses for you!

i'm sorry, it's not always easy.

My DH and groomsmen all had suits and my bridesmaids had long dresses and it looked great ! you don't need a tux.