Sooo ready to cry

I just feel like there is so much to do it's overwheming. I thought having a destination wedding would be muuuuch easier than going through what all my friends and sisters did having a wedding here at home. BOY was I wrong. It's sooo much more work-especially since our families are so big...we're inviting 200 people to a friggin DW!! Not normal. Plus I have to stress even more about the weather, about people having a good time b/c they are essentially on vacation...

Plus-I was never really into this planning and now it's hitting me that DUH no one else is going to do it so I have to get into FULL on planning mode. I have a list but don't even know where to start. FI is becoming the worst procrastinator...I don't know...So sorry for this....just needed to vent.

And I'm not even PMSing!! But I feel like I am....every day lately!!

Wow, you sound so overwhelmed.

Maybe light some candles, get a glass of wine and take a warm bath or treat yourself to a massage.

I hope you feel better soon. I could never do a destination wedding, as lovely as they are - and 200 people. I don't blame you for feeling crazed :(

wow, a DW with that many people can be very overwhelming. Just keep detailied lists of everything you need to do, and get it done a little at a time. You have a little more than 2 months to go, but time flies and u dont want to be stuck with a long list ot to do's @ the end.

gl

I feel your pain. We are having a DW with 60 people....I couldn't imagine with 200....
Do you have BM's or family that could help you out? I am taking full advantage of people who offer help over this next month. There is just too much to do on your own. Don't overwhelm yourself...let people help if they offer. You can always FM me if you want to chat as well....


Where is your wedding going to be?

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Posted by autumnbride10

I feel your pain. We are having a DW with 60 people....I couldn't imagine with 200....
Do you have BM's or family that could help you out? I am taking full advantage of people who offer help over this next month. There is just too much to do on your own. Don't overwhelm yourself...let people help if they offer. You can always FM me if you want to chat as well....


Where is your wedding going to be?

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Right outside Naples, Florida. Where is yours??

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Posted by kmcs317

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Posted by autumnbride10

I feel your pain. We are having a DW with 60 people....I couldn't imagine with 200....
Do you have BM's or family that could help you out? I am taking full advantage of people who offer help over this next month. There is just too much to do on your own. Don't overwhelm yourself...let people help if they offer. You can always FM me if you want to chat as well....


Where is your wedding going to be?

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Right outside Naples, Florida. Where is yours??

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Gettysburg, Pennsylvania

Thanks everyone!! Just read your replies and had a nice cup of tea...and I'm feeling a bit more relaxed.

It'll all get done and it'll be wonderful....that's my new mantra!

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Posted by kmcs317

Thanks everyone!! Just read your replies and had a nice cup of tea...and I'm feeling a bit more relaxed.

It'll all get done and it'll be wonderful....that's my new mantra!

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That's the spirit!