Is anyone having trouble balancing wedding planning, work, and school? I am so tired. I can't figure it out. I haven't bought any Christmas presents and I just feel so overwhelmed. I feel like I disappointing my FH and family, because I can't keep up with everything. Does anyone have any tips to help me? I am a first year teacher, in school, and planning my wedding....I just saw my mom and she said that I need to start doing my hair nicer and dressing nicer...when I looked in the mirror I saw she was right.. I look like garbage...any tips to help cope and balance my busy schedule pleeeeeeeaaaaseee help!
Dani777
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What if you took a little bit of time to not think about wedding related things? What if you just focused on the holidays to help left your spirit? You have plenty of time so you should take time to just relax and take it easy.
JennyAPH
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Awe. You have alot on your plate right now so my advice would be to always try to make time for yourself!! Pamper yourself a little. Take a bath and relax, get your nails done, If you have extra money get a massage. Try not to feel so overwhelmed..and don't kill yourself over wedding planning. I did at first and I was a disaster!
As for wedding presents.. go online tonight and see if there are any sales. Some websites might have free rushed shipping!
Mich2585
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well you know that if anyone understands it me! i am in the same boat ... with teaching (my first year), planning a wedding, having to get an apartment ready, christmas, graduate school, finals ect its like AHHHHH ... (i was just studying but decided i needed a break!) all i can say is make time for wedding planning ... like have specific times that you focus on the wedding planning. i figure, lets get thru christmas and finals and than i can think about the wedding and the apartment. one thing at a time .... and i think that learning how to say NO to things helps too! i used to feel like i need to say yes to everyone and everything ... now i dont hang out with my friends all the time, i dont go out every night, there are night where i come home from work and just relax ... it feels good and helps me relax. make time for you!!!
dutchessev
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I feel the same way.
What I try to do it just focus on one thing at once.
Just for now think of Christmas and don't worry about wedding stuff.
Because I am so busy what I am going to do is take 2 week off in Jan. and focus on wedding that way I will only focus on school during the semester.
