is it bad that i want nothing to do with wedding planning. We've been engaged since november 07 and were supposed to be married this may but then postponed it. Since that happened...ive wanted nothing to do with this wedding. I dont know if it's because im bitter about it, or that it's 09 and i should be getting married soon. I just feel like it's sooooo far away now and i cant even get a little excited about it. AND i never thought id be having a 2 1/2 year long engagement. I am just so blah...please ladies...help me get back into the spirit!!!!!!!!!!!
CloudNine
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what did you re-scheduel it to? if you have alot more time then its ok you arent in the wedding spirit...you can take some time to relax and get back to real life of not being obsessed over a wedding lol it might be a mix of being bitter and feeling its so far away, maybe being disappointed...but thats ok..it happens...and look at the bright side...you wont be so stressed over svaing money...in fact maybe you can save more now and get more things you wanted that you thought you couldnt afford.
i think it will pass
lilpiggy742
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it was supposed to be may 23 2009 and now its may 29th 2010...so a full year
LouMar2010
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i also got engaged in nov 2007. and its really hard having to wait till long. ive had a bunch of people get engaged after me and planned to get married before me which makes it harder. but then i know we waited this long because we wanted to save up all the money. our days are going to come soon. you can hold off planning for awhile and take a break from all the wedding stuff now.
Summertimegal424
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hey ash..how was that wedding yesterday?did you find it okay? lol
StaceYums81
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I think you have some time...
CristinanBen2010
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My engagement is 2 1/2years and I feel the same way. I havent booked anything in a while cause I feel like I have so much time but in reality the time is going to go by so fast. Dont worry that you feel that way, Im with you!
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haha coll..yes we found it ok. It was a lot of fun. The food was good ( we had the filet mignon) and people were dancing all night. I just felt bad b/c a lot of people cancelled b/c of the weather but my friend looked beautiful and everyone had a great time!
Summertimegal424
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Posted by lilpiggy742
haha coll..yes we found it ok. It was a lot of fun. The food was good ( we had the filet mignon) and people were dancing all night. I just felt bad b/c a lot of people cancelled b/c of the weather but my friend looked beautiful and everyone had a great time!
aww ..that stinks!
hey and dont worry about not doing anything. enjoy your time w/ gerry and enjoy the time you have 2gether. once you hit the one year mark im sure you will have a second wind, and then all the sudden you will be back at the 6 month mark....trying to get things done! hahah i just re-did my list...omg sooooooo long ...kill me
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My engagement is 2 years and 2 months and I feel the same way.... I am taking my time doing things
futureMrsJSL
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Oh no, I'm sorry you feel that way. I can understand though. I got engaged last March & we have a two year engagement. I wanted to start booking things and my FH was more laid back about it and that bothered me for a while. Then I realized that it's just his personality and that it didn't have to lessen how I felt about the wedding. I hope that you enjoy your engagement and that you will start to feel refreshed and excited again!
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i know how you feel, there have been people getting engaged after me and getting married beforehand, i will have been engaged 2 years and 2 months before i get married- but it was the only way we could do it by allowing ourselves some time to save up
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I felt like that too at times, but I think it's good to have little breaks, I def needed one, just enjoy your everyday life so that everything doesn't become about the wedding, and when yours gets closer (you're almost at your 1-year mark!) you will get more into it. Or just go see 'Bride Wars' that got me back into wanting to plan, lol.
