SORRY GIRLS....

i agree, say whats on your mind. Ive had ppl get mad at me for saying things, but i will express myself. If you have a bad experience then definitely speak about it, can help brides with their decisions too. There shouldnt be rules, and everyone should speak about whatever they please. If youre having a bad day then vent, ive posted vents ive had. My whole thing is sometimes you might not want to be 'mean' about something bc it can cause drama. Others dont care if it causes drama so thats fine then. But many times ive seen girls post things, someone gets upset and then the OP cant handle the drama and doesnt know why someone got mad. My theory is say what you want, but if youre going to be mean or rude then just expect what may come to you and be prepared for it and not surprised if someone says something. I just dont like when someone all of a sudden thinks 'omg why are you starting drama just bc i said something rude' get over it you said it and deal with it. If i say something rude im prepared for what others have to say.

I think LIW is a great place to vent, its a place where you know other brides understand what you are going through while others in your life might not.

No one is imposing rules of any kind. I was just simply stating lets get creative and help each other out with our wedding planning. I am so sorry if you took my words out of context....but thats exactly what I didn't want to happen. Or happens a lot on here. B/c we are just writing back and forth it is very easy to have things taken out of context. To put it simply....remember when you reply to a brides comment that things are taken out of context and if you don't like something, say it gently. That's all. This board is getting big and its happening quickly. A lot of girls don't know what to expect. Don't worry 2010 love all around. Sorry if you thought I was trying to impose rules, just the complete opposite.

you girls are starting waaay too early but must say, its good entertainment on the very boring boards lately

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

you girls are starting waaay too early but must say, its good entertainment on the very boring boards lately

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Starting too early? Are you kidding? Cause I've been to RH's that tell me certain dates I was looking into are booked!

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Posted by Opera_Ghost

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

you girls are starting waaay too early but must say, its good entertainment on the very boring boards lately

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Starting too early? Are you kidding? Cause I've been to RH's that tell me certain dates I was looking into are booked!

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No, think she meant the drama is starting too early. We have a long time together. It's sad to have this oldie vs newbie mentality. Before you know it, we'll all be the oldies. The group is growing, the dynamic is changing. There's going to be growing pains but we're all adults here and we're all here for the same thing.

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Posted by amandah75

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Posted by Opera_Ghost

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

you girls are starting waaay too early but must say, its good entertainment on the very boring boards lately

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Starting too early? Are you kidding? Cause I've been to RH's that tell me certain dates I was looking into are booked!

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No, think she meant the drama is starting too early. We have a long time together. It's sad to have this oldie vs newbie mentality. Before you know it, we'll all be the oldies. The group is growing, the dynamic is changing. There's going to be growing pains but we're all adults here and we're all here for the same thing.

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yes, i meant the drama... you guys have a long time together still... try to keep the peace as long as possible we also went through the new vs old girl drama... it happens... im sure the same happened on 08, 07 etc ... put too much estrogen in one place and its sure to blow up every once n a while just dont take what people say to heart and you'll be a-ok ... remember you wont be seeing or hearing much from those on the site after you're married so what others say really doesnt matter much

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Posted by stinenandy2010

No one is imposing rules of any kind. I was just simply stating lets get creative and help each other out with our wedding planning. I am so sorry if you took my words out of context....but thats exactly what I didn't want to happen. Or happens a lot on here. B/c we are just writing back and forth it is very easy to have things taken out of context. To put it simply....remember when you reply to a brides comment that things are taken out of context and if you don't like something, say it gently. That's all. This board is getting big and its happening quickly. A lot of girls don't know what to expect. Don't worry 2010 love all around. Sorry if you thought I was trying to impose rules, just the complete opposite.

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i wouldn't feel bad. The same way everyone else said they had the right to express how they feel about things and vent about whatever they want, you have the same right to do this. You spoke your mind and thats it, and like others said too, if someone doesnt like what you say oh well dont read it and move on. It goes both ways and like everyone else said, its LIW its not that serious, everyone will get over it hahaha