Sorry...but I need to ask this....

I agree about lap dances, I think they are inapropriate. I told FH that if he would be OK with me giving some random guy a lap dance, then he can go ahead and get one.

But I wish some of the meaner comments on here about strippers would be rethought. You never know who may be a former stripper, (they get married too),and would be really personally insulted by being called a wh0re.

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Posted by Naunie

I agree about lap dances, I think they are inapropriate. I told FH that if he would be OK with me giving some random guy a lap dance, then he can go ahead and get one.

But I wish some of the meaner comments on here about strippers would be rethought. You never know who may be a former stripper, (they get married too),and would be really personally insulted by being called a wh0re.

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Good point I never thought of it that way. I personally don't care for strippers for myself. It's something about sweaty men in my face that bother me. But to be honest, I really don't care if FH had one either. Just don't get ridiculous w/ it

As for the strip clubs in AC, MOST of the things I've heard are that the girls are gross-(which is good, haha!) and most of them are NOT bottomless....

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Posted by JeanineHubert

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Posted by beautyq115

When is your FI going Jeanine??

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July 22nd...

I don't wnt to get ripped apart on here...But I am TOTALLY agains them. I just dont like the idea of them-some girl rubbin on my fh's U KNOW WHAT!!!

Not that I think he will do anything, but I don't want some girl doing that to him, u know?
He doesnt even want to go to one, but I'm sure his brother and MINE will make them go to one.

I am tryin to set some grounds tho-no bottomless, no lap dances-this is what really grosses me out.
No VIP rooms AT ALL!!!!!!-That is out of the question......
We have been fighting about this

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Im right with you!!! FH left today for an entire weekend in AC! I am not happy about it to say the least. I dont understand why guys have to do this RIGHT before they get married!

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Posted by jtgarsik

u know what? (and noone rip me apart here).... bottom line is, if he knows it's going to upset you....THEN HE SHOULDN'T GO. Some women dont mine - and that is totally fine...BUT SOME DO...and your man should respect that.

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I completely 100% agree...Sorry!

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Posted by JeanineHubert

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Posted by jtgarsik

u know what? (and noone rip me apart here).... bottom line is, if he knows it's going to upset you....THEN HE SHOULDN'T GO. Some women dont mine - and that is totally fine...BUT SOME DO...and your man should respect that.

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I completely 100% agree...Sorry!

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So do I!! Unfortunately, there was no stopping his bachelor party.

My dh went to a strip club in AC all NUDE. Didn't bother me though. I trust him. Don't stress out. I know you trust your FH...

And they aren't skanky whores!

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And they aren't skanky whores!

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The whore part is a bit mean... but I wouldnt hesitate saying skanky. Taking your clothes off and dancing for a man is kinda the definition of skanky no?

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Posted by melbalalala

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And they aren't skanky whores!

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The whore part is a bit mean... but I wouldnt hesitate saying skanky. Taking your clothes off and dancing for a man is kinda the definition of skanky no?

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mmmm no but whatever

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Posted by SIBride06

Jeanine.. Dont worry mama. I cant stand strip clubs either.

Skank whores.

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at 'skank whores'...MY thoughts exactly.

I can't believe that doesn't get censored out...

Think of it this way........your DH is not going to leave you for some skanky ho. He's just going to have some laughs with his friends. Even the guys who go to these things laugh at the situation. As long as he does not risk his health or yours (you know what I mean), just laugh at the situation.

My DH came home from a bachelor party so disgusted once. A stripper noticed he was wearing a Breitling watch and commented on it. Then she was all over him, thinking he had cash. She was being so obvious about it that he would not even talk to her. He was annoyed, not turned on!! It's become joke and whenever I want something or just want to flirt I say, 'Oh, nice watch.'

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Posted by Naunie

I agree about lap dances, I think they are inapropriate. I told FH that if he would be OK with me giving some random guy a lap dance, then he can go ahead and get one.

But I wish some of the meaner comments on here about strippers would be rethought. You never know who may be a former stripper, (they get married too),and would be really personally insulted by being called a wh0re.

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I agree, who are we to judge ANYONE. I am actually disgusted by the things some girls say....judge not !!!

ETA: I do not personally know any strippers but I would venture to say most are strippers to a) pay for school or b) take care of thier kids

JMHO

I have to agree with Stephanie- it's just a job for them-a way to make money

more money then most of us make I'm sure-maybe that's why some many people have problems with it

if it bothers you that much- then the issues is with your FH - not with the Strippers- and if it's just a once and a while thing- then let him go and have fun- if it's every weekend- then it's a problem

ALL of you are right... Its a ONE time thing. It does make me feel better that most of you understand that it means nothing and its not THAT big of a deal. I guess I just needed some conviencing that I shouldnt care so much. Thanks!