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speeches at wedding reception?

joan713 Posted:

speeches at wedding reception?

My daughter is getting married this week. The best man and one of her matrons of honor plan on making a speech at the reception. Does the father of the bride usually give a speech too? how about the bride & groom. My daughter doesn't want to get up in front of 150 people and make a speech. Thanks

bigrd37 Posted:

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i guess it depends on how everyone feels about making speeches. of all the weddings i've been to, i can only remember 2 fathers giving a short speech to say congrats and good wishes to their daughter and husband, etc.

I've never seen a bride and groom give a speech, but i have heard that people do it. so it's really up to them if they feel comfortable saying a few words to thank everyone. good luck!
Brian and Marie Posted:

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We only had the BM and MOH say a speech! We were going to, but it just neveer happened!
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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so i have alot of our friends already saying they want to make speeches... i dunno if thats a good or bad thing considerin they'll prob already be drunk by that time...
donegal419 Posted:

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Posted by joan713

My daughter is getting married this week. The best man and one of her matrons of honor plan on making a speech at the reception. Does the father of the bride usually give a speech too? how about the bride & groom. My daughter doesn't want to get up in front of 150 people and make a speech. Thanks



i would say it is most appropriate for the father of the bride to say a speech and definitely if he and his wife are hosting the wedding. . . . my father did that... he basically welcomed everyone, thanked them for coming, and wished us well... short and sweet!
JayLi2007 Posted:

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My father did not want to speak, but DH did. I stood up there with him, but only he spoke. It is totally up to her - there is no right or wrong when it comes to this.

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