If your FH goes w/you to all the vendor appointments. Who ultimately makes the final decision?
Do you both not book something until you're both in agreement; or is it usually what you want to go with as the Bride?
FutureJOC
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we've both had to be in agreement. FH does trust my opinion because I am the one would did all the research on the vendors so I only booked appts with vendors who I felt would meet our needs but once we got to the appointment and heard what they had to say, FH and I discussed first before making a decision to book. The only vendor he didn't come with me to meet/nor care about was the florist for obvious reason (guys could care less about flowers LOL).
ElovesJ117
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We both have to be in agreement even though sometimes FH can be persuaded to come to my side of things lol
AugustBridein09
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DH came with me to every appointment...at the end of the day its his wedding too so I wanted all of our decisions to be together. He used to work at a major venue in NYC so he was into the little details and knew a lot more about certain things than I did so it was awesome to have his input.
Notwedyet08
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FH pretty much lets me 'weed' through all the choices and then he goes with me to my top choices. I've visited about 15 halls on my own or with my Mom and if i like it enough he came. We haven't booked DJ's; Limo's or photographers yet but i'm sure he'll come with me to all of those.
Maybe not the florist though!
DCgirl82
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We have been going to all the vendors together and we basically keep looking until we both agree, however He has agreed on pretty much everything I picked out The only vendor he didnt care to even go talk to was the florist haha.. Tomorrow I am going to be looking at limos alone cause he has to work but he said he trusts my judgement and taste and If I like them to book it
FinallyMrsS2010
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I am calling all the shots w/ respect to booking the vendors, making appointments and paying the deposits because ultimately I am the one footing the cost for the entire wedding. I only brought FH w/ me to a couple of RH's to see which ones he liked, but ultimately - he let me decide most of the details since he hates anything wedding related anyway.
MissingLI
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FH has made every decision with me. I would do the research and show him what I or the wedding coordinator found online. We would then make the decision of who we liked the most and the coordinator would set up the appts for us to meet with. We've actually had a lot of fun with the whole thing.
aquag12283
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Its usually me since fh says it usually comes down to what I want anyway
meghan13
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My FH is lets me do the research and I tell him the details. We will go to the places together though. He's basically letting me do what I want, but I want him to be a part of the process:)
itbroi805
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FH has been with me to all our appointments except for the last florist appt we had, which we wound up booking. He had to work last minute so I went with my mom and my sister. my mom comes to all the appts with us, I never even asked FH is he minded.
were pretty much in agreement except for the cost of the flowers but i ultimately got my way :)
kimmaymb20
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We talk between us and if we are both in agreement and love the vendor we booked.
The only vendor that FH has no say in was my DOC but other then that we both had a say in each
ItalianBella1122
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Posted by FutureJOC
we've both had to be in agreement. FH does trust my opinion because I am the one would did all the research on the vendors so I only booked appts with vendors who I felt would meet our needs but once we got to the appointment and heard what they had to say, FH and I discussed first before making a decision to book. The only vendor he didn't come with me to meet/nor care about was the florist for obvious reason (guys could care less about flowers LOL).
This is EXACTLY FH and me. I've done the research so he trusts me...not to mention when he sees that look in my eye that we've found 'the one' (hall, photog, DJ, etc) he knows he can't argue with me lol But since we are both paying for it, we have always talked it though before signing.
