Spin-off..from have you cheated

RedHead Posted: Jun 15, 2004 02:19 PM

Spin-off..from have you cheated

SO has anyone ever been cheated on (not necessarily by our FH's)???
And if so did ya catch him or were you told???

brideinapril Posted: Jun 15, 2004 02:22 PM

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I don't think I've ever been cheated on, so I guess thats a good thing!

btrflygrl Posted: Jun 15, 2004 02:29 PM

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I had a BF that cheated on me several times...and he told me about them eventually

shelly3950 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 02:31 PM

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I had an ex who broke up with me to sleep with an acquaintance of mine I introduced him to. Is that cheating?

I totally believe in Karma: she ended up stalking him.

julz33 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 02:31 PM

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I have cheated and been cheated on. These boyfriends were before my FH though... that was early high school. The relationship was 1 year long though so even though we were young it was serious. The boy was older. He was a senior when I was a freshman. When he went away to college I was only in 10th grade and I cheated on him ALL THE TIME. I know he cheated on me too, he told me. That is kinda kiddie stuff though. I started dating my FH right after him so that was my only other serious boyfriend

RedHead Posted: Jun 15, 2004 02:38 PM

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I don't know if my ex cheated or not...

When i went away to college i started dating my ex a month or
two before i left.
4 years later, after we broke up...I found out from a mutual friend
that he saw my ex with some girl that first month i was gone...
When i comfronted my ex...of course he denies it...

d&d05 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 02:49 PM

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I had a feeling my ex cheated on me one day while talking to him on the phone and (after some coaxing) he admitted he did it earlier that day! He wound up cheating on me a few times that I found out about after (who knows how many more???). That was a 4 1/2 yr relationship!

I'm so glad I got rid of him and found the right one!!!

PrincessRose Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:03 PM

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Yes.

The one I cheated on (see other post) was cheating on me at the same time, and then went back to the same girl for the last YEAR AND A HALF of our relationship.

Also, the guy after him was dating me and another girl for about a month.

james'pokey Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:07 PM

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I was cheated on and I found him with the other girl. I was only a teenager then so it was not so bad! But good riddence!!

nov04LIbride Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:10 PM

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I was cheated on by the boyfriend who I cheated on. I was working in Washington DC for a semester during college, and he was still on campus. We were both cheating on each other, but one of his frat brothers (I was pinned and a sister in his frat) called to tell me he brought another girl to a date night and they hooked up after. I was sooo pissed and the following year when I was back there and we were back together I gave her evil looks when I saw her (ohh I am sooo mean). It felt horrible and made my skin crawl when I imagined them together. Of course I asked for all the details. Ewww just thinking about it now.

Corduroy94 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:21 PM

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My ex cheated on me. Fortunatly I didn't find out until after I dumped him or I'd probly felt worse. He kept saying I was his FI but funny...I don't recal being asked or saying yes...? Gotta love the way some guys think!

hbradio Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:22 PM

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I was cheated on by an ex that I was on/off with for 4 years. He cheated on me when we were together for only 4 months. Call it womans intuition but I knew something was up and I repeatedly asked him for years and he denied it. This girl was the basis for all of our break-ups and fights throughout the years. Finally, one of his friends decided to tell me the real truth 4 years later and that was the end of that forever!!!

FeliciaDA Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:29 PM

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I've been cheated on (in the past, not by FH) numerous times by various ex's.. I always found out on my own, noone ever had to tell me. Not wanting to get into specifics, lets just say I learned a LOT since those experiences transpired. Once I got older and wiser, there was NO way I would tolerate that behaviour any longer!

Ya see, I was the queen of being in love with the 'bad boys' .. if they didn't give me grief, I didn't want them! I think a part of me really loved the drama back then, and the challenge .. I thought it was more 'exciting' , and I was easily bored by the 'nice guy' (I know ... Felicia=Stupid)

I've since learned, by meeting my wonderful FH, that you can be TRULY loved, respected and become happier beyond your wildest dreams ..

Yes, the 'nice guys' can keep things very exciting, too

OctGroom Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:35 PM

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When I was 19, (light years ago) I was with a girl I thought was THE one.. (I was sooo wrong) but one day after she p.o. ed me I made a few phone calls and met up with an flame.. and a girl who was just a friend.. I went with the desire to hook up with one of them.. I just couldn't. To be honest, I think would have felt even worse if I had.

So.. no cheating for me. Tempted? yes.. go through with it? -- nope.. never..

ANd now the answer is an absolute.. NO WAY
FW took all the bad memories away and brought so much goodness..

how could ever I betray that?

Bebalina Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:36 PM

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yes by my first boyfriend...but i was 16 then...I'm 23 now...been with FH since I was 18....and hes great!

halloweenbride04 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 03:41 PM

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Yes, I've been cheated on and it SUCKS! I found out from snooping because I suspected something.

sammi102 Posted: Jun 15, 2004 04:38 PM

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I don't think I was cheated on, I would hope not....

OSCARtheGROOM Posted: Jun 15, 2004 04:42 PM

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My son's mother and I were trying to work things out, and at his christening my family and I watched as she kissed another guy. Thats when I knew it was over. Good thing though because I would have never found my soulmate for life BriBri529.

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Jun 15, 2004 04:50 PM

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I was cheated on! I never cheated though.

The first time I was cheated on was when I had to go to Puerto Rico for my Grandma's funeral. When I came back my best friend told me she saw my boyfriend at the time making out with a girl at a club while I was away. The second time was when I was away at a competition....I came back and read a letter she had written to him describing how excited she was they hooked up and that she loved the excitement for having to hide from her BF and me (his gf)...needless to say..they are both gone!!!!!!!!

RedHead Posted: Jun 15, 2004 06:42 PM

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Posted by OSCARtheGROOM

My son's mother and I were trying to work things out, and at his christening my family and I watched as she kissed another guy. Thats when I knew it was over. Good thing though because I would have never found my soulmate for life BriBri529.

aaawwww...that is sweet...fate