Spin-Off...IS YOUR HUSBAND/FIANCE....

kmcwed Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:36 PM

Spin-Off...IS YOUR HUSBAND/FIANCE....

The man you have been MOST physically attracted to in your life? Or is there someone in your past who was more physically attractive to you....

Ooooooooh....tough question, huh?

Kim921 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:42 PM

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YES! Fi is so hot I look at him sometimes and and shocked!..lol

I have dated some good looking guys in the past, but FI is by far the most attractive!

WithThisRing Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:43 PM

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i have a friend Joe that could be a model. He is GORGOUS!!! he's got blonde hair and deep blue eyes. he is muscular. He played both HS and College Football. But he treats woman like dogs. they are trophies to him. All he is, is looks. To me that is not attractive. He is my dear friend and I have told him many times he cant treat woman like that but he says hey i am good looking.

My FI on the other hand to me is handsome in more then just looks. He has a heart, he puts me and everyone else before himeself, he would give you the shirt off your back if you were cold and it was -20 degrees out. he has dreams and ambitions and goes after them and doesnt stop until he reaches them. He has made all my dreams come true.

to me my FI is the most attractive man because for all that he has done for himself and for me. My friend on the other hand who is gorgous and could be a model I think as good looking as he is, his attude about woman makes him look ugly.

Stacey1403 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:44 PM

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The attraction we have is unbelievable, I have never been this way with another man

Anniegrl Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:47 PM

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Yes - wayyyyyyy attracted to him. More than any other man, by far!

kmcwed Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:49 PM

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I agree Chippa.

I was with someone in the past who was very attractive, not just in a handsome sense but he was also one of those people who just has that certain something, like a star quality. Naturally, he always had girls hanging around, and knew the effect he had on people. He was also selfish and self-centered, and not the most honest person in the world. He was a true Liar, and could look you straight in the eye and lie to you to save his own a$$.

So while the attraction was super high and things were passionate, he was ugly in a lot of other ways.

I suppose it's true that Beauty is only skin deep.

My DH may not have the same 'Star Quality' but he's all I ever wanted in a man in every other way. Not to mention he's got the best a$$! LOL!

Sassy Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:53 PM

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I feel my DH has all the HOT qualities. I am more attracted to him than anyone in my past.
He is HOT HOT HOT

What-Now Posted: Aug 08, 2003 04:13 PM

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Absolutely, I have never been attracted to anyone more then I am to DH! I have dated men who were better looking than my DH. Actually, I have dated a man who made women on the street stare at him in admiration and at me in jealousy. He was absolutely gorgeous! (And surprisingly, one of the most decent people I have even known in my life)

BUT to me my DH is the most attractive man in the world because we have this UNBELIVABLE, insane chemistry! We clicked from the very first second! He makes me laugh, he makes me cry, he makes chills run down my spine and my knees wable!

Kathy116 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 04:20 PM

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About 5 years ago I dated this guy who was on the cover of GQ! He was gorgeous, but after a few months, that wore off very quickly, because he was so into himself!

butterfly20 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 05:31 PM

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FH is definately most attractive to me..

OctBride05 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 05:43 PM

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fh is the most attractive guy, i never dated anyone better looking then him.

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Aug 08, 2003 05:45 PM

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Gonna be honest here and say..no

HearzBellz Posted: Aug 08, 2003 05:54 PM

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hmmm.... fh found this board last night......can't say for sure.....

Ok, not at first, he was - well - a bit dorky in HS with his flat top & the neon california hardwares, but now.......

kmcwed Posted: Aug 08, 2003 06:02 PM

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Happy to see the honest responses. It's a tough question.

spel Posted: Aug 08, 2003 06:07 PM

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absolutely! it was magic when we met!

still is of course

mlp924 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 06:08 PM

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Yes we have unbelievable chemistry!

Wendy Posted: Aug 08, 2003 07:44 PM

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Honestly? If we are talking just physical attraction and nothing else, then my answer is no. There was a guy that I dated briefly in high school who was absolutely, positively gorgeous. He had incredible blue eyes that just made me melt. Long curly eyelashes, long wavy brown hair and a body that didn't quit. HOWEVER----He also thought he was God's gift to women and was a complete jerk. His true personality and behavior came out on our third(and last) date.

The funny thing is that I saw him about 4 years ago and he has not aged well. While his eyes are still amazing (they made me melt all over again) the rest of him didn't do so well. And you know what? I would still take my dear sweet husband over this guy any day of the week!!!

HearzBellz Posted: Aug 08, 2003 08:42 PM

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Its funny b/c when FH & I first got together he was a bit insecure about this. Because we have known each other for so long, he has seen or knows many of my ex-es.... and some of them have been OMG kinds hotties. But it wears off if there is nothing else there.

It is funny, FH saw one of my ex-es a few weeks ago... he congratulated Will for getting engaged & Will says, I was ok with it (he usually is NOT ok with it) I was so proud of him