Spinoff: did u ever catch ur SO cheating?

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Posted by tracyg

I caught my ex fiance posting personals on adultfriendfinder.com and sendign illicit emails. I immediately kicked him out, no second chance, that was the end as far as I was concerned. I don't tolerate cheating. Told DH if he ever does it he gets no second chance either.

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WOW, Good for you!!!!!! A lot of girls give 2nd chances, you are strong, that is great.

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Posted by boosh78201

If I ever caught him cheating he know his a s s would be divorced and homeless.

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ditto!!

My first hubby was having an affair with my best friend. I never suspected a thing. As soon as I found out, I kicked him out. I was living in Spain at the time, no family around so it was very hard. But no, no second chances. I moved back to NY as soon as the dog's rabies vaccine was valid (have to wait 3 months after the vaccine to come in the US).

Then.....
I met DH.
I used the $ from the house ex and I had owned in SPain (very little $, mind you) for a down payment on a co-op, and made a 50% return in 2 years.
Used some of that $ for a beautiful wedding to a wonderful man.
Using some of it to start my own business.
So....in the end.....I should thank the a$$hole!!! I have a great husband, a beautiful home, my dog, $$ in the bank..and my own business!!

My ex-fiance was a dog in heat. I 'suspected' him of cheating a few times but he always lied his way out of things. We became engaged and he started 'disappearing' with my car when I was at work (his wasn't running and we were living together at my Mom's). My Mom followed him one night (he never knew it) and she said he was with some 'friends' but there was alot of girls in that group of friends. About a week after Mom followed him (she did it without my knowledge) we broke up under separate circumstances (actually he had taken up hitting me and was trying to choke me the night I kicked him out). We were scheduled to be married in December 1992 and it was September when I kicked him out. Found out from his 'friends' somewhere after the new year his son was born in Feb 1992. You do the math. To make things worse, the girl was only 15 and guess where the little tot was conceived? In my car!!

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Posted by ambersmom

My ex-fiance was a dog in heat. I 'suspected' him of cheating a few times but he always lied his way out of things. We became engaged and he started 'disappearing' with my car when I was at work (his wasn't running and we were living together at my Mom's). My Mom followed him one night (he never knew it) and she said he was with some 'friends' but there was alot of girls in that group of friends. About a week after Mom followed him (she did it without my knowledge) we broke up under separate circumstances (actually he had taken up hitting me and was trying to choke me the night I kicked him out). We were scheduled to be married in December 1992 and it was September when I kicked him out. Found out from his 'friends' somewhere after the new year his son was born in Feb 1992. You do the math. To make things worse, the girl was only 15 and guess where the little tot was conceived? In my car!!

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

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Posted by ambersmom

My ex-fiance was a dog in heat. I 'suspected' him of cheating a few times but he always lied his way out of things. We became engaged and he started 'disappearing' with my car when I was at work (his wasn't running and we were living together at my Mom's). My Mom followed him one night (he never knew it) and she said he was with some 'friends' but there was alot of girls in that group of friends. About a week after Mom followed him (she did it without my knowledge) we broke up under separate circumstances (actually he had taken up hitting me and was trying to choke me the night I kicked him out). We were scheduled to be married in December 1992 and it was September when I kicked him out. Found out from his 'friends' somewhere after the new year his son was born in Feb 1992. You do the math. To make things worse, the girl was only 15 and guess where the little tot was conceived? In my car!!

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OMG! My jaw just hit the floor!
Glad you got out of that, Sharon!

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Posted by boosh78201

If I ever caught him cheating he know his a s s would be divorced and homeless.

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ok, yes we would be divorced, and i would never do it

but let us remember who put the downpayment on the house

and if i'm homeless, you're carless

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Posted by ambersmom

My ex-fiance was a dog in heat. I 'suspected' him of cheating a few times but he always lied his way out of things. We became engaged and he started 'disappearing' with my car when I was at work (his wasn't running and we were living together at my Mom's). My Mom followed him one night (he never knew it) and she said he was with some 'friends' but there was alot of girls in that group of friends. About a week after Mom followed him (she did it without my knowledge) we broke up under separate circumstances (actually he had taken up hitting me and was trying to choke me the night I kicked him out). We were scheduled to be married in December 1992 and it was September when I kicked him out. Found out from his 'friends' somewhere after the new year his son was born in Feb 1992. You do the math. To make things worse, the girl was only 15 and guess where the little tot was conceived? In my car!!

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Holy crap what a pig

He would not live to tell about it.

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Posted by Rainmama

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

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Posted by ambersmom

My ex-fiance was a dog in heat. I 'suspected' him of cheating a few times but he always lied his way out of things. We became engaged and he started 'disappearing' with my car when I was at work (his wasn't running and we were living together at my Mom's). My Mom followed him one night (he never knew it) and she said he was with some 'friends' but there was alot of girls in that group of friends. About a week after Mom followed him (she did it without my knowledge) we broke up under separate circumstances (actually he had taken up hitting me and was trying to choke me the night I kicked him out). We were scheduled to be married in December 1992 and it was September when I kicked him out. Found out from his 'friends' somewhere after the new year his son was born in Feb 1992. You do the math. To make things worse, the girl was only 15 and guess where the little tot was conceived? In my car!!

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OMG! My jaw just hit the floor!
Glad you got out of that, Sharon!

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I second that!!! Holy Cow!!

WOW! I'm so glad you're away from that guy!


My ex was cheating. He lived in NJ and this was before we had cars so we didn't get to see each other often. He came to see me one day and met me after school. He had tha audacity to show up with an overnight bag...an overnight bag!!!! Why? He was spending the rest of the weekend with his no so ex girlfriend.

I asked him why the bag? and he came up with some story about how his mom kicked him out because she disapproved of our relationship (I was older than him..and his 'ex' was my ex best friend and bad mouthed me to his family and they basiclaly hated me). I didn't buy his story, but finally he admitted that he was spending the weekend with her, but he gave me some cock and bull story about how he was visiting her b/c they had promised they'd buy father's day gifts together for his dad, since she lost her dad...etc..it was such crap. We talked for a long time, and I suspected for a long time he was cheating, but ti was really difficultfor me, because I remember that day I asked him so many times to tell me the truth. Not to lie to be because we had been best friends for so long, and over and over again he looked me in the eye and lied to me. And that hurt the most. If he had respected me and our friendship enough to admit he was cheating and go from there, it would have been another thing...our 'relationship' wasn't as valuable to me as our frinedship, which was completely destroyed. That night he promised to call me from his 'ex's house but he didn't, so I called his voicemail and broke up with him. He didn't get the voicemail for a week or something..LOL..

Then he claimed that he slept with her because when she came ot his place to get her stuff they 'accidentally' kissed, and she threatened that if he didn't sleep with her 'one last time' she'd tell me about the kiss....and one time turned to two, etc...LOL...I can't believe he actually expected me to buy that.

KIND -OF ....
well, FH was living with his current GF when him and i started up..... they were on the rocks.... but one day she came in with a hickey..... i was so mad.... but i wasnt REALLY with him, so i cant say he cheated with hier.. she WAS his GF at the time....

then FH & I broke up b/ci didnt want to see him til she was gone.....


in the meantime i started seeing this chick.... yes, a girl.... anyway, so she called me one day drnk out of her mind and was telling me ho she was trying to get this guy to sleep with her and stuff.... she was a hoe-bag.. she cheated on me... but considered it an 'open' relationship.... thing was, I didnt slut around , so that had to end.

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Posted by tracyg

I caught my ex fiance posting personals on adultfriendfinder.com and sendign illicit emails. I immediately kicked him out, no second chance, that was the end as far as I was concerned. I don't tolerate cheating. Told DH if he ever does it he gets no second chance either.

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I actually caught my ex doing the same thing! Luckily for me I am really good with computers and found out! We were living together at the time and he was out the night I found out. I called my best friend and she came and got me. We cleaned out the entire apartment of ALL my stuff... as well as EVERYTHING I paid for... this man was left with NOTHING... no toilet paper, no soap, no toothpaste, no food, no towels, NOTHING... as far as I was concerned, I paid for it.... LMAO! I would of given my left leg to be a fly on the wall when he got home to see what was left of that apartment... moral of the story.... DON'T CHEAT