Obviously sex i know that everyone will agree on that!!!
just curious
Preshy7
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IMHO - anything. Kiss, sex, email, phone calls - its all cheating. Even if there is nothing physical, an emotional attachment to another person is cheating in my book.
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IMHO - anything. Kiss, sex, email, phone calls - its all cheating. Even if there is nothing physical, an emotional attachment to another person is cheating in my book.
I absolutely agree....it's the emotional more than the physical. It's the deciet that goes along with it as well. When you do all of those things you're taking what should be investing into your current relationsip and putting it somewhere else.
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Posted by Preshy7
IMHO - anything. Kiss, sex, email, phone calls - its all cheating. Even if there is nothing physical, an emotional attachment to another person is cheating in my book.
I absolutely agree....it's the emotional more than the physical. It's the deciet that goes along with it as well. When you do all of those things you're taking what should be investing into your current relationsip and putting it somewhere else.
I agree 100%!!!!
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Anything that goes beyond 'friends' I have no problem with a friendship, I have male friends. But once you cross that line - THATS IT! no phone calls no emails no nothing. Oh and the female friends are only ok if I know them too. No secrets - secrets=cheating.
04Bride
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does anyone know of someone who cheats on their husband/wife all the time. I know somoene who has in teh past they seperated and he eventually came back but i dont think its ever been the same
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Anything that goes beyond 'friends' I have no problem with a friendship, I have male friends. But once you cross that line - THATS IT! no phone calls no emails no nothing. Oh and the female friends are only ok if I know them too. No secrets - secrets=cheating.
That's how I feel too.
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Posted by 12-3Princess
Posted by halfpintny
Posted by Preshy7
IMHO - anything. Kiss, sex, email, phone calls - its all cheating. Even if there is nothing physical, an emotional attachment to another person is cheating in my book.
I absolutely agree....it's the emotional more than the physical. It's the deciet that goes along with it as well. When you do all of those things you're taking what should be investing into your current relationsip and putting it somewhere else.
I agree 100%!!!!
Me too.
BriBri529
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anything!
Princessmaris
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I couldnt of said it better myself!!
gNi1125
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Yup I agree with all of the above. None of it is okay to me.
CubanBride
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I won't know until I come to it.
lillian771
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I agree, any of those things you listed is cheating.
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What is considered cheating to you?
A kiss?secret phone calls?Talking on email?
Obviously sex i know that everyone will agree on that!!!
just curious
Anything that you do with someone else that you would not tell your significant other. It doesn't even have to be romantic or sexual, but FH and I both agreed if we have done something with someone else and we feel guilty or feel that we can't tell the other one then it's a form of cheating (of course not if you're planning a surprise or something, ya'll know what I mean).
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Posted by Preshy7
IMHO - anything. Kiss, sex, email, phone calls - its all cheating. Even if there is nothing physical, an emotional attachment to another person is cheating in my book.
I absolutely agree....it's the emotional more than the physical. It's the deciet that goes along with it as well. When you do all of those things you're taking what should be investing into your current relationsip and putting it somewhere else.
exactly
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I'm with you 100%! I had this happen to me... not with FH but with my X before him. I had it on all levels... phone calls, e-mails, pages (we're going back to before cell phones were attached to everyone's hip - when pagers were in), lying, sneaking... and all the rest that comes along with it. I think cheating is more than the physical.. its more than sex or any other physical contact.
For me, the worste part was learning of the lies... everything done behind my back... deciept! I had the most difficult time accepting that everything was a lie. All the moments that I thought were special became a lie to me.
I think that part of being in love with someone is letting them love you and trusting them completely... when that trust is broken I don't see how there can be forgiveness.
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Sex, without question. But any kind of intimacy - sharing personal feelings, emotions, etc. even without kissing or touching is cheating in my book. Once you open up to someone else you're not being exclusive to one person, plus lying is involved since I'm sure no guy will share that he's 'talking' to another female so that's a huge NO-NO.
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Posted by Preshy7
IMHO - anything. Kiss, sex, email, phone calls - its all cheating. Even if there is nothing physical, an emotional attachment to another person is cheating in my book.
