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Spinoff to Adults Only...Black Tie Affair

Mici n KC Posted:

Spinoff to Adults Only...Black Tie Affair

Is anyone putting that on their invites?

Snowflake08 Posted:

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nope not me

xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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nope i just REALLY hope ppl KNOW that a sat night wedding is not a casual affair
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

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Negative. FH refused. He was forced to do so the first time, and hated it.

Our families aren't really 'black tie' people.... lol.
Espo22 Posted:

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No bc i think men will think they HAVE to wear tuxes and i personally dont like all the men dressed alike, i like to see all the different suits...I trust my guests to dress appropriately

EverlovingEv Posted:

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We put black tie preferred

A few people caught that and asked if that meant tux - we said a suit would be fine and everyone looked great. I didn't want some OOT thinking that a summer wedding means a shirt and pants
jeffamanda080808 Posted:

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I am praying that some of FH freakazoid friends and family dress appropriately.

Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by EverlovingEv

We put black tie preferred

A few people caught that and asked if that meant tux - we said a suit would be fine and everyone looked great. I didn't want some OOT thinking that a summer wedding means a shirt and pants



I know a number of us have OOTers from all over the country and you dress differently for weddings everywhere. I went to an evening wedding just outside of Philly and it said Black Tie Prefered on the invite.
AS Posted:

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No bec people will be dressed up regardless

xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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Posted by EverlovingEv

We put black tie preferred

A few people caught that and asked if that meant tux - we said a suit would be fine and everyone looked great. I didn't want some OOT thinking that a summer wedding means a shirt and pants



exactly... i have gone to a few weddings on sat nights and they think they can wear a summer dress (tiny)
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

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Honestly, I know that nobody will, but, if someone did show up dressed inappropriately, I would just laugh. And make sure I got lots of pics for you girls!

jennandrolo Posted:

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nope. i trust my guests enough that they'll know how to dress appropiately.

Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Honestly, I know that nobody will, but, if someone did show up dressed inappropriately, I would just laugh. And make sure I got lots of pics for you girls!



Good idea!
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

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Posted by MiciB115


Posted by AmandaLynn04

Honestly, I know that nobody will, but, if someone did show up dressed inappropriately, I would just laugh. And make sure I got lots of pics for you girls!



Good idea!



I love going to a wedding and seeing 'that girl'..... it's usually a girl... lol.

Good times.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Honestly, I know that nobody will, but, if someone did show up dressed inappropriately, I would just laugh. And make sure I got lots of pics for you girls!



I FEEL The same way, its like hey youre the one who everyone is gonna talk about dressed inappropriately, plus im have between 300-350 guests i probably wont even pay attention to 1 person not dressed appropriately

But honestly i dont see a problem with my guests not dressing up...FOr e-party we had 150 ppl and every single person came real dressed up. Men wore real great suits i was very impressed with them, lots of different styles and all lol

FH's friends are astoria and howard beach guys, these guys care as much as the girl(some worse) how they are dressed My family always dresses up and i know FH's does, the rest its on them lol
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by AmandaLynn04


Posted by MiciB115


Posted by AmandaLynn04

Honestly, I know that nobody will, but, if someone did show up dressed inappropriately, I would just laugh. And make sure I got lots of pics for you girls!



Good idea!



I love going to a wedding and seeing 'that girl'..... it's usually a girl... lol.

Good times.



thats what im saying, come on theres always gotta be 'THAT GIRL' at every wedding lol
xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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confession...
at my cousins wedding about ummm 20 years ago (WOW) she said black tie...
her FBIL and family came all done up
as SOON as the reception started and the family pictures were done... they (everyone but FBIL) all stripped down to sweats, tees, and pj's

mind u
if you remember these are the SAME ppl i posted the other day that regift

i prey things changed now that the children are in their teens now!!
TheFutureMrsM Posted:

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i was thinking of putting
Black Tie Optional
or
Black Tie Preferred

We have alot of OOT people and i want to make sure they know to dress up nice!
Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by AmandaLynn04

Honestly, I know that nobody will, but, if someone did show up dressed inappropriately, I would just laugh. And make sure I got lots of pics for you girls!



I FEEL The same way, its like hey youre the one who everyone is gonna talk about dressed inappropriately, plus im have between 300-350 guests i probably wont even pay attention to 1 person not dressed appropriately

But honestly i dont see a problem with my guests not dressing up...FOr e-party we had 150 ppl and every single person came real dressed up. Men wore real great suits i was very impressed with them, lots of different styles and all lol

FH's friends are astoria and howard beach guys, these guys care as much as the girl(some worse) how they are dressed My family always dresses up and i know FH's does, the rest its on them lol



FH must have the same friends from Howard Beach
ShanonandSteve Posted:

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we wont be.

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